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writes:Well i dunno where to begin really, iv been kinda seeing this guy n really gettin close to him and have spent alot of time with him just lately,.. Being all cuddled up on the sofa watchin a film, walking down the road hand in hand and all that jazz, but just lately he's been ignorin my messages n that when i know he's about, and he always has free texts so its not like he cant text back,..and i haven't been pesterin him, iv tried bein more modest n then a bit more upfront, he also has some problems himself tho, and cos of stuff he's done it scares him gettin too close to someone n bein in a relationship., iv known him for years but never really got to know eachother before now, but i dont understand why he blaitenly dont want anythin to do with me? The funny thing is that the last time i spoke to him we was planning this great night in, so i dont get why i haven't heard from him since? Help! Its been wrecking my head :s
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (23 June 2008):
XxAnGelXxx is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks for your reply tis much appriciated :) iv found part of the problem so i am getting there slowly but surely! Because he hasn't been able to contact me, he's got it in his head that im hating him for what it seemed like he was blanking me, and is feeling kinda scarred to get back in contact with me! But i find that kinda silly, bless him. But mind you he hasn't said that, thats coming from his sister who he's very close to, so thanks people, i am half way to resolving it! x
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reader, dazednconfsed  +, writes (22 June 2008):
I know the feeling trust me. I'm in the same situation right now. The only thing i can say is to call him and see whats going on, how he feels about the relationship. although i know what you mean about not tryin to seem so obessive. Most of my friends have said, if you really want to see how she..or he in your case feels about you, then leave em alone till they call you. I'm not sure how long you should leave em alone cuz even after a couple of days i go crazy so i cant help you there. But..they said if they dont call you back then you'll get your answer that way. It's definitely hard either way. Hope this helps..good luck
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (21 June 2008):
XxAnGelXxx is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, its already been a week though, and i'd feel awkward trying to contact him again cos like i said, i dont want to make it seem like im pestering him n that im obsessed, if you get me? Problem is iv really started to like him and i thought he was feeling the same, when i have spent that time with him he couldn't keep his hands off me! Lol but anyway,.. Its really starting to do my head in, i've actually been moping around! I never mope, im usually a generally happy, look on the bright side of life person but i feel dead silly for lettin it get to me this much :s
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reader, Shan x3 +, writes (21 June 2008):
 i understand exactly how you feel. maybe you should try asking him simply, did i do something to make you not want to talk to me or see me? if he still doesn't answer you, i'd just give it a couple days, i'm sure he'll come around.
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