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writes: i met this boy called dillon 2day and he seems ded nice but he came my house while i got a drink we went up to the water dispencer in my room coz it ice cold anywayyzz we ended up play fighting messin about he through me on the bed and sed nothin got on top of me all we did waz kissed a little then he started doin other stuff it didnt feel rite sein i only just met him and i sed i neeeded the toilet he den got a tx he had to go home 4 his dinner but hes comin back 2night he told me 2 be redy wat shud i do any advise welcum x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): The main question people have been asking in response to this question is where are you parents?
I'm your age and believe me, my parents would stuggle to leave me and a boy they had known very well for ages, for a few MINUTES in a bedroom, let alone i boy i had just MET
to stay over the night!
People are basically wasting their time posting help to you, cause your just going to ignore the advice anyway.
I could go on and on about how young you are blah, blah, But i know a lot of girls in your postition who dont care.
If something doesnt feel right, dont try and make excuses for the person pushing you into it, STAND UP FOR YOURSELF.
Because if you dont, god knows how you will turn out in the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): Flirty be carefull, use your brains and don't be forced to do anything you are not ready for.
Take care!
Where are your parents?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): Hold on..... STAY THE NIGHT...... :0
Flirty, just how old are you. I thought you were 12years old, but I don't think you are. Where were your parents at the time. How come they let this boy stay with you all night. I'm a bit confused now, cause everything sounds strange. Please update us with more information about your home situation. Do you live with your parents, or is somebody else looking after you. Please update....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanks but i want him to cum round im not a slag but i really like him he says i dont have to if i dont want to how sweet is that awwwwwwww!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): Flirty, now you have to listen to me; this is in your own interest;
What you are doing is very dangerous and very wrong; it might seem okay and nice and fine but trust me; this guy is going to take advantage of you;( I hope not he did already last night) WHY did he stay the night? WHere are your parents?
Do not have him at your house again; do not allow him in your bedroom again; Watching a scary movie together is an old trick, just a way to get you in his arm; to make you want to be closer to him; PLEASE tell this guy not to come to your house tonight; tell him your parents found out and that they dont want him there; this guy is trying to get to you to have SEX; you hardly know him and he sleeps the night; tell him you cannot and will not see him again;BUT never be alone with him at your house and NEVER be alone in your bed room with this boy.
I am warning you he will take advantage;(I hope not he did already last night)? Do not create any further opportunity for this to happen; phone him, phone him now and cancell your date for tonight.
Don't jus t think of now, of today; think of the future;
You are a wise young girl; you know that what is happening is not right; stop this before anything else can happen
Keep me posted.
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reader, MissWendlemoot  +, writes (22 June 2008):
 You just met this boy. I wouldn't let him into your house. Also, here's a little secret you might not have heard; ladies don't allow boys in their bedrooms. That's a mysterious place kept off limits to boys.
Are you left alone all night a lot? Where are your parents?
Best wishes sweetie xo
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell i spoke to him on the fone and he sed hell cum ova we just wont do nowt we sat in bed under the covers and watch a scaryy movie i was proper scared but he let m put my hed on his shoulder wen the movie had finished he gave me a hug and wen we puld away we kissed again and we did and he stayed the night im glad i did tho oh he is soooo fine were gonna do it again tonight CNT WAIT
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): I go along with everything Smiles says except the being friends bit. He is a thoroughly UNfriendly type who is trying to take advantage of your friendly nature.
Any decent type would be your friend first then your 'boyfriend'. After some time dating, progressing from there, with your full consent.
I'm not gonna go on about the 'You're too young' thing because I know, like it or not, you're gonna do things anyway - it's a different, not necessarily better, world we're in these days.
Please be very careful who you mix with and please - take great care of yourself. If I was your dad, God knows what I'd do to him!
Let us know if we can help further - we're all here for you.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): I suggest you tell him you are not ready for anything more then just friendship;
that you have told your parents about this....chances are that he will run!
Don't ever let anybody force themself on you or force you to do anything you are not comfortable with; and don't ever have sex with anybody unless you are totally sure; you are still very young; save that for later;
Any decent good boy, will value and respect that.
Good luck; you are a very wise girl; remember we are here; you are always welcome;
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): as every1 else said you are very young!! and it doesnt feel right because it isnt rite!! tell him you arnt ready 2 do those kinds of things!!
hope this helped!!
xx candy
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (21 June 2008):
 Don't let him in your house!
If it doesn't feel right; there's obviously something wrong, and you know it - this boy's a stranger, he did things that made you uncomfortable and if you let him in your house, he's going to try something else.
You are way too young to have to deal with something like this, let your parents open up the door and make him go away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2008): As Lexilou has said, it dosen't feel right cause it's not right. This boy is not your friend, he isn't your boyfriend, he's just some stranger that you met. How dare he do stuff to you, how dare he demand to come to your house and do things to you that you don't feel comfortable with. Don't let him into your house, tell him you don't like him and tell him to go away or you'll tell your parents what he wants to do.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (21 June 2008):
 Yes tell your parents and lock the door. You are far too young to be in this situation, he may force himself on you thinking its what you want. Learn to say no if something doesnt feel right and dont invite boys into your home unless you know them better and your parents know about them x
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