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writes:I like this guy and ive liked him for a while. and he was single and we were flirting alot and hangin out like 4 times a week. but i never was brave enough to ask him out.now he has a girlfriend.and i dont know what to do.i broke up with my ex because i thought forsure that me and that one kid were gonna be together.and my bf was my first boyfriend.and he gave me my first kiss.i dont have feelings for him no more.but i still like that other kid.i dont know if i should tell him or just wait till hes single [[if he is ever going to be.]]and then tell him then.
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reader, dudeman123456789  +, writes (20 April 2010):
take it from a guy you probably shud tell him you never know he may break up with his girlfriend and go out with you depends on how you look if you look better than his girlfriend he probably will go out with you
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reader, kirarin020493  +, writes (4 February 2010):
Hi! Im in the same situation. Im in love...well, i know i am because i just cant stop thinking about him and I really do anything just to see him at least once every day...but that was before. He has a girlfriend now... :( Ive hung out with him and some friends before, cuz he's in my sports team (in school), and I fell in love with him since freshman....Im a junior now and he's senior...We always hang out during competitions and every minute quickly becomes the happiest time of my life...but the problem is, after the competitions...we are back to ignoring each other. Well, before there was still a couple of nods, smile and hi but now we dont even look at each other. I think he really likes his gf and so I dont want to get in between so I never told him or even try to hint him that I like him. It hurts me eveytime :( And im trying my best to ignore THEM now because its just....*sigh* Ive never had a bf before so I guess thats why I really feel it :( horrible
Anyway, I know that Ill get over him once he graduates and I will find more guys in college so yeah...maybe thats what u shud do too...
My problem now is...even though i try my best to avoid him and get over him, I still (unconciously) try to impress him wahh and make him notice me :( its sad
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): i REALLY like this but he has a girlfriend. do i tell him even though my friend aked hm what he thought about me and he said that im wierd.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2008): hey...i know how you feel sorta. I have a best friend who is one of the few people i fell i can truly be myself with. because of that i let my wall down and we got close but i went and fell in love with him. i can't sleep, eat, work without thinking of him. I want to be together so bad, just to be able to hold him but he has a girlfriend who is so beautiful and i ain't i was always one of the guys. i have thought of telling him at the end of this school year because he is graduating but i am not sure. i am sure this is love because i never had stupid crushes and stuf. he is my first love and i want him to give me my first kiss. also if he does like me i have really strict parents who probably never allow me to date him even though i am sixteen.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): im going through the same thing right now. im a sophmore right now and i've liked him since the beggining of freshmen year. my boyfriend (now my ex) and i broke up after 3 years together. i never thought that i could love another guy....but thats when i started liking will. i see him and his girlfriend after school everyday, hugging and kissing. i wish i was her at times...but everyone says "aww your so much prettier than her" so i would ask myself...well then why isnt he with me. then i asked my two very best friends and my mom what i should do. my mom is the one of the smartest women i've ever met. she told me not to tell him. it may hurt sometimes...and you might just want to scream it out when you see him.....but think about how you're hurting his girlfriend. why try and break them up....when he's happy? if you guys are meant to be together....then it will all work out. your beautiful and you can get a boy who will love you, and that will stay with you forever....you have plenty of time for boys....but dont forget to hang out with your girlfriends...and live life. my 2 very close best friends told me they understand how i feel and they want me to be happy and they both love me very much....but i dont need to tell him. maybe after him and his g/f break up....but not until then. all im going to do is cause drama...and he might end up hating b/c i mad his g/f mad. its not worth it. they both told me iam a really good person by not tearing a relationship apart. trust me....i want to tell him everyday...and it kills me to see them together.....but why loose him as a friend?he will respect you for keeping your mouth closed...instead of trying to come between them....ya know? besides i've been to a few college football games...and honey...let me tell ya.....college boys are something to look foward to :] dont get all caught up on one guy....there are plenty out there that are single and sexy. college is going to be great...dont waste your time on one guy...they arent worth it. :]listen to that song by paramore -Misery Business. listen to what she says. it will cheer you up...it did for me :]and hearts; good luck. dont get all hung up on one guy....there are plenty out there for you :]
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reader, isolated  +, writes (20 October 2007):
Let his relationship take its course if it doesnt work out tell him how you feel. In the mean time dont hang around get on with your life you never know whats around the corner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): You lost out so now you have to walk away. You cannot tell him now, he has a gf and that would spoil things for them. So do the sensible thing and find yourself another bf and move on. If he does become free in the future and you are in the same situation then ask him out then, but only then.
take care
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reader, blazee +, writes (20 October 2007):
 chanches are he will be single soon=] lol most relationships in teenage years dont stay strong for to long.
so dont do anything that might jepordize your relationship with him already, wait.
good luck, x
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (20 October 2007):
 hi
what a mature person you are, you said in your letter it is a good idea to keep quit for now, and wait to see if his is new relationship works out,if not then you will tell him how you feel,very good, well done.
sorry to hear about your boy friend thou, not to worry people of your age group soon fall in, then out,with each other so you may be with your friend sooner than you think, but if that happens be care full,he may not be with you for long before he leaves you.
keep smart, take care.
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