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writes:i'm in love with my mates girl and she likes me to but we dont want to screw things up, wat should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Blue_Angel0316  +, writes (20 October 2007):
 If you know you feel this put yourself in his place. If she were your girlfriend would you really want to be dissed for your best mate? Seems a bit unfair to say the least. It can cause the end of a great friendship and you never know a relationship with her just might not work out and you could be left single and without your best mate.
Let things be for now and remain the best of friends to both. If it's meant to be in the long run it will work itself out. If she becomes single and the best mate isn't offened by you dating his ex then you can make a decision based on that. Like that say..everything in it's proper place and time. Good luck and God bless.
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reader, Checkup Man  +, writes (20 October 2007):
 Just be yourself. Don't say anything 'suggestive' regarding going out together, etc., talk to her as though she were just a good friend, and treat her as such. Then, IF she should say to you "I've split with my boyfriend", you could suggest going out with her. If she keeps her current boyfriend, then you haven't offended your good mate. Hope this helps? All the best!
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reader, kenny +, writes (20 October 2007):
 I would not make a move on your friends girl, it could cause all sorts of unessesary complications all round. And you will also jeopardize you friendship with your mate, and a mate is worth keeping because you never know when you may need them.
All the best
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