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41-50,
*leabop
writes:I accused my husband of 6 years of cheating on me, because I saw a phone number I did not recognize. I did not ask him first, I just jumped the gun. What can I do to earn his trust back and get over my own trust issue? Reply to this Question
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (20 October 2007):
 dear Fleabop.
I have been there myself, you are thinking in the right direction, even thou it is hard for you, try very hard to stay calm do not bagger him or it will end in another blazing row,give him two or three day, then i would,if you are happy that he seems to be coming back to your way of thinking, ask him if he will go for an evening out some ware away from the home, because that is were the row started, then tell him your sorry once, do not keep repeating it or he will only get angry with you again, if the first time this fail, then think of something you both enjoyed doing together, a special place you both visited, a park you both used to walk in or some or a place with happy memories, you both shared and enjoyed together,try not to get angry or shout as this will not end well, keep calm at all times, try it see if it works,
if you have issues i think you need to talk to some one maybe a Doctor or councilor even a self help group, if you manage to resolve your own issue then everything will fall into place then your marriage will run on a better level.
i hope you will keep me informed of your progress, keep yourself safe. good luck.
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reader, rammsteinfan +, writes (20 October 2007):
 You should have waited and looked up the number either in your phone book or on the internet first.
Plan a special dinner with candles and champagne. Buy a gift and present it to him along with flowers if you want. And tell him that you are so very sorry for accusing him of cheating on you.
God Bless
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reader, fleabop +, writes (20 October 2007):
fleabop is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHere is a little more information. He is giving me the silent treatment. I know he just needs time to cool off. He won't even look at me right now. I know I messed up bad.
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reader, unknown_person +, writes (20 October 2007):
I guess you should not rush...Tell him you want to talk with him, try to make a romantic night, show him your love, talk with him kindly, apologize to him nicely...Tell him, this the biggest sign that i love you from my heart, if i didn't love you i wouldn't really care that much...Tell him, its the huge love that you carry in your heart made you act such away...put your arm around him sit between his arms....excuse me my english not that good as i'm still learning, i hope you get my point....
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (20 October 2007):
hi
could you send more information example is your husband still with you, is he giving you silent treatment, things on that line, if you do not mind, because of the time may no answer until late afternoon/evening sat sorry.
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