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41-50,
*angsteroflove
writes:My girlfriend (of 4 months) recently told me that she "wants to take a break" but assures me she doesn't want to break up with me. She thinks we've been taking things too fast and wants to take a "step back". She finds it really hard to explain why she feels this way. Should I be worried? What's really going on here?Thanks for any insight.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007): bro i am wondering the same thing but i talked o other girls and they said play it cool dont go begging her to come back play it cool make her miss u when u see he ask how she is doing and tell her u miss her thats all and also u could get her a tennis bracelet i did for my girlfriend todayand her eyes lit up and i havent talked to her i am thinking shes gonna want to come home i got advice from other girls bro i didentt like just think this shit up myself
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): I'm going through this type of thing too. But we've been together for four years and engaged. I think she's not ready to be tied down fully just yet. Again not dated too long, so it might be too fast for her own comfort level.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Well, taking a break means that you both are free to date other people....it is what it is, she is not ready to commit to your relationship and has more to do with her maturity level than anything else.....also, four months is not very long to date or to be exclusive, perhaps it is too fast, for her.
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