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He's got a car - should I go and meet him?

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Question - (20 October 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2007)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Moderator's note: This is the same young lady who asked a few posts ago about having sex with her 16 year-old boyfriend!! (or at least - it's from the same computer)

well.

theres this guy and i like him right hes ok n hes fit n stuff but ive onli actualli met him in person once. he says he really likes me over msn n stuff n he always wants me to go meet him n stuff but i dont dare n i gt asked out on wednesdayy buy a guy n when i told him he got really jelous n went in a mood wi mi n everytime i sign in on msn he says "hey sexy wanna come meet me" all the time n i try make excuses up n es like oh fuck it come n meet me instead "think of the sex" or "ive got loads of jonnys nees usin" and he wants me to go meet him tonight cos hes got house to his self n stuff n i told him id go meet him if he really wanted to hes gunna pick mi op (cos he drives) and were off bak to his n im scared^o) i dont dare goo.!!!! what shall a doo!!

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2007):

DrPsych agony auntWow he's got a motor...and an industrial size stack of condoms...how could you refuse such a romantic proposition? What a bargain he is!

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A female reader, isolated United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2007):

I know when your a teenager you can be overwhelmed by any attention you get from older guys i've been there done it. He hardly knows you he definately doesnt respect you if hes asking for sex like that hes scum trying to take advantage of you because your young and willing to believe he actually gives a damn. Guys like this will use and abuse you DONT DO IT.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007):

Is this some kind of a JOKE? I hate wasting my time, so this is my answer to this one - YOU ARE MUCH TOO YOUNG!

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A female reader, Emzy1591 United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2007):

Emzy1591 agony auntDon't go! This guy obviously only wants you for sex and your clearly too young not to mention underage. If this guy really liked you then he would want to meet up with you for another reason other that "I got johnnys needs usin". My advice is to tell him to leave you alone, block him and move on. Hes just one of those sex mad scumbags you can do without.

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A female reader, desirewhitefire Austria +, writes (20 October 2007):

desirewhitefire agony auntDon't go, simple as that. You should never put yourself in a situation when you are scared of meeting someone. I met my boyfriend online, and we talked for a long time over the phone, and when we decided to meet for the first time, we went to a highly populated area in broad day light. I would only meet him like that and never went to a quiet place with him, got in the car with him, or back to his house. When he introduced me to his parents, I knew it would be safe after that.

There are men that hang out online and say they are younger or show you a picture of someone different, trying to get you interested. Don't take the bait, and if he comes to your house, lock the door and tell him if he doesn't leave, you're calling the police. And if he doesn't leave, then you need to call the cops. All he wants you for is sex, and if you allow him to drive to pick you up, or if you meet him alone, he may get aggressive with you, and you may be raped.

Never play around with meeting men online.

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A male reader, dapone 1 United Kingdom +, writes (20 October 2007):

dapone 1 agony aunthi

bad news for you, you are 13 to 15 years old and you want to go off in a car,with three blokes who are older than you,i have news for you, (you now i get fed up of saying this, and one day no one will ask this any more)you are a MINOR under the age of legal consent,if you go off with these guys, and one of them touches you sexually they are sex offenders,sex offenders go to jail, they get fined big fine, other people in prison hate them, when they come out police put them on the offenders listing, then every time some one has touched a child they get arrested,this follows them all their lives, then think what will happen to you,what if they are already sex offenders,and get hold of you and do really horrible things to you,what do you think they will do to you to stop you talking to the police,this is the sad bit,they will KILL you, thats not the sad bit it was your selfish idea, the sad bit is your poor dad an mum will be heart broken, just because you wanted to get into a car with three men, i feel sorry for your mum an dad.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007):

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hi. its actually me and my friend here. i asked the first question, she asked the second =]

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