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writes: Okay hey guys, I got a qustion. What are the rules of dating? Im new to the whole dating scene and Im wondering if there is rules that apply. Like time in between dates, phone calls etc. I know its diffrent from time to time. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Yogichickk +, writes (21 October 2007):
Funny discussion :)
I am a girl and I think:
Once she's fallen for you (that's a different topic of discussion):
do things for her that she knows you'd never do for anybody else ever
The truth is there are no rules. Anything goes. Whatever works works. It takes years to find out what works in the relationship. The most important thing is to love and care for each other enough to stay long enough together to grow more love and more appreciation for each other.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2007): Here are some rules u should follow if u get a girlfriend:
1. You should be equal. I mean that both of you should talk to each other and listen to each other. If you find that one of you talks but doesn't listen, the relationship won't go well (i think)
2. AVOID lying to ur girl AS MUCH as possible. Girls usually don't like secrets (i think).
3. Be yourself. You'll find that on certain situations you will find it hard to not-be yourself, but it's ok if you change your habits or change little things, just don't do a sudden change in personality (i think).
4. U should choose a girl that doesn't care for your wealth. If you do, you'll regret it.(i think).
5. Don't rush things. No need to kiss or hug right away. You should only do things if both you and your partner agrees on it.(i think).
6. Keep in regular contact, but don't go overboard (like calling every second)(i think).
7. You should be able to trust your partner, and vice versa.(i think).
8. Don't make light promises. Only make ones that can be fulfilled. You break a promise, and you will be in trouble.(i think).
9. You should eventually know her well. If she tells you something, try to remember it.(i think).
10. You should be able to protect your GF from danger(i think).
11. You should talk to her if she has a problem.(i think).
12. Try to impress her as much as possible (i dunno)
13. Don't take your relationship for granted.(i think).
And, try to prevent other men to take ur girl BUT avoid violence unless you have to.
No gurantee these are the rules and don't know if they help. I mean, I don't have a girlfriend myself yet.
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