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30-35,
*irlwhoneedshelp
writes:I love giving my boyfriend oral but I sometimes feel a little disappointed afterwards as he has never cum during a blowjob. He definitely reacts to it and it makes him quiver and there is a climax of pleasure but nothing ever comes out. I usually only use my mouth during a blowjob, do I need to use some hand action to make him cum? HELP BOYS!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): I must chime in as those answers are misleading at best--males and females with no ability to articulate what they already know how to do.
Don't attempt to simulate vaginal sex with your mouth. Your mouth can do so much more! Also, you should know that the most sensitive area of the penis is the head. be gentle and lick and suck the head. Use a wet forefinger and thumb wrapped around the penis to stimulate the head and shaft whilst you pay attention to the head with your tongue and mouth. Using a counter-clockwise motion with your right hand, thumb touching forefinger, move up and down on the shaft as you engulf the penis with your mouth. Use a similar motion with your tongue and mouth as you use with your right hand. With your left hand secure a gentle grip at the base of the shaft. Use your left thumb to play with his genitals. The key is to not try to make a blow job the same as vaginal sex. If he wants to fuck your throat, let him, but control the blow job by commanding attention to the head. Alternate the hand and mouth rotation with deep throating sucks. I have met men who can't reach orgasm by oral copulation...until they meet me...remember, the mouth is amazing and should never be a substitute for the limited abilities of your vagina...tight is tight...suck and twist and work it!
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reader, girlwhoneedshelp +, writes (23 October 2007):
girlwhoneedshelp is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks everyone for your advice! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Stimulating the feeling a man gets with your vagine may help so instead of just doing the usual tongue actions, you should try sucking it quite hard up and down all the way, pretty fast. The closer the oral sex is to actual vagina sex, the more he will feel like coming. Having said that, it is usual for men not to come during oral sex, as most men get better stimulaton during vaginal sex. Don't think this means they are not loving it, but see it as a build up and part of foreplay. It's perfectly normal so don't worry too much about it, best of luck XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Hand action will help, but there just isn't as much stimulation there with oral as there is with vaginal sex. I have to be really turned on for my wife to succeed without help. It works best if we haven't had sex for a couple of days, even when we were much younger (60s now). You might want to break up the mouth action with just hand action and use your tongue on his erogenous zone. For most men, that is a nipple. We guys seem to have much more sensitive nipples then women. That's probably lucky. You wouldn't want to have an orgasm while breast feeding. He could also help a little with his own hand action while you take a breather. That works well for us and it's still just as erotic.
A former girlfriend was really good at it. I think that her mouth action was stronger than my wife's. She would use her mouth while lying below me and rub my nipples with her fingers. It seems like an uncomfortable position to me, but it was great. Whoops, my wife is reading this - it really wasn't that much better. HE-HE.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (20 October 2007):
 Dear girl who needs help,
every one act different some need more help than others to sperm, there are two ways you can do this one is to use your hand as well, and the other you may not like but a friend told me she does this to help,when he is working to words a climax,not coming still holding on, put a condom on your finger,rum your finger around his anal passage,that then help the pressure then the affect that you want happens, try the hand first.dont be to rough with him.
hope this helps good look.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Im not a guy but i can tell u this based on experience. If you use your hands while you use your mouth, it will help him. Also try going all the way down, I think guys like that feeling too. I hope this helped. =]
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