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Any advise on what I should do to make it work?

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Question - (20 October 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 20 October 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, *heking87 writes:

Hello,

Here's my story, me and my ex girlfriend broke up like 3 or 4 weeks ago and we went out for 4 months. We broke up because I wasn't being affectionate, sweet, caring. Now I probably should have leave it alone for a few weeks, but I didnt and I tried to get back with her. I wrote her a letter stating how I feel about her, basically everything that I wanted to get off my chest. After she got it and told me thank you for the letter and card which was fantastic and said her decision was still sticking. We are friends now and yesterday he asked me an interesting question, how come I became sweet and caring after we broke up? I said because it was hard for me to open up, but I wanted you to know how I felt about you and made a mistake by not being affectionate, so I wanted to fix it and make this relationship work. Does anyone have any advice on what I should do ? I heard an advice to call her in like a week and ask her to come get a cup of coffee with me, so we can just talk have I can make her feel that attraction she has or had for me. Also I wanted to know if she is dating anyone or misses me? But I dont want to sound desperate, so what would you recommend? Get back to me as soon as possible.

Thank you,

Eugene

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