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*assyb2kai7
writes:Hi!There's a boy who I really like at school and sometimes I think he likes me back but I'm worried in case I'm misreading the signals.When we're in class I can feel him looking over at me but when I turn around his heads buried in his textbook.Does this mean something?Other times when we do make eye contact his face becomes all serious and he looks deeply into my eyes, licks his lips,and his pupils are so big you can barely tell where his pupil ends and his iris begins.When he's with his mates in the outdoor part of the school he doesn't look at me but his friends do and I get the feeling they're talking about me.But he never speaks to me, is that a bad sign or is he just shy?????????xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Lads of a certain age can be such strange characters. He is sounding to me to be a bit shy. They always act differently when they are with their mates, depending upon his age. The next time you see him on his own why dont you go up and ask him out. What harm can it do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): Sounds like he likes you but dont get your hopes up too high. Sometimes, when you like someone you can imagine these things such as them looking at you.. Hopefully not though:-)..just wait and see what the days bring x
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reader, kenny +, writes (20 October 2007):
 From what you have said he is showing the classic signs of fancying you. Looking at you in class then when you look up he looks away. Giving you direct eye contact is another sure sign he is into you, and also his dilating pupils. However i do think this boy is shy of asking you out, maybe he thnks you are not interested, who knows. Let him know you are interested by reciprocating the flirting, try and hold eye contact with him for as long as you can then smile and look away. Maybe find an excuse to lightly touch him, maybe when passing or taking something. Just subtle flirtatious gestures to let him know you like him, and it will build his confidence up for him to eventually ask you out.
Good luck x
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reader, Checkup Man +, writes (20 October 2007):
 It could be shyness or perhaps a fear of rejection if he asked you to go out with him. It's a difficult age for boys (and girls) and perhaps he's just not sure if he is 'acceptable' to the opposite sex at this stage. All the best to you. Hope it all works out fine!
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