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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Anyone know a cure for dry mouth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - this will sound completly stupid but what the hell. i have been suffering from a dry mouth recently and no matter ho wmuch i drink i cant get rid of it. i also think its affecting my kissing. any ideas how to rid it?... (44 words)

My teacher is so hot and I am in love with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 17 year old. And I'm in love with my teacher. What i would like to know is if she likes me back. hear are some things that have happened that makes me wonder. on my birthday she smiled and winked at me and gave the class a free day. the next day i told her thank you fo... (145 words)

He cheats with me, but then says he wants to stay with her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age - I am so confused and hope someone can help. I have fallen for this guy at work but we are both in other relationships. About 6 months ago this man and I realised that we were very attracted to one another and as we both have issues around sex in our permanent relati... (297 words)

I am in love with two men. How do I choose?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4919 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Love 2 people? I have a boyfriend (Jake), known him for 2 years and a good friend (Tom), known him for 1 year. I am in love with Jake, but during the year I have developed strong feelings for Tom and recently found out that he has feels very highgly for me. The problem is t... (128 words)

How do I make her want to be my girlfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend were dateing for almost three months, and then we took a break. i still love her very much and really wish to go back out with her. she still loves me too and she even told me that she still loves me, the only problem is she's confused, she said sometimes ... (81 words)

She wont tell me why we are breaking up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - my girlfriend refuses to talk about why we are spliting up and i just can't live without her what can i do... (22 words)

I'm 21 and have never come and feel less feminine because of it! What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im 21 and ive never come.In some ways I feel less feminine less womanly. Why can’t I? What’s wrong with me? Some times I say “it’s them, not me” but there comes a point when you have to say that maybe it is you. after all if they have made others come and not you it might be ... (110 words)

I struggle to keep my erection during sex, but it comes back when I stop--help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6100 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My penis starts losing it's erection while i'm having sex, and if I pull out it starts erecting again. Any idea why it loses it's erection?... (26 words)

Should I tell a guy I like him before he leaves?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy and he is 15. He used to live in my neighborhood and I like him a lot. But I am only 12 right now. He is only visiting his grandmother for the summer and will be going back to Alaska in August. I like him a lot, but he will be leaving soon and plus I never see ... (132 words)

How do I win a girl's heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I get rid of my spots and what do I need to get to a girl's heart? I have no success with woman and I feel this site is my only hope. ... (36 words)

We spend all our time together--how will we get through our separation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I am looking for some advice on spending the summer away from my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly seven months. This might not seem long but we have been living in uni halls of residence and so have seen each other for a large part of every day. Fo... (265 words)

I don't want to be shy in my new place--any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone. i am 18 years old and I am relocating from Brooklyn NY to a Philly suburb. I have lived in Brooklyn all my life. I pretty much do not have much friends and i have never even kissed a girl (let alone have a girlfriend). There is proabaly alot of reason... (170 words)

My fiance wants sex every night and gets angry when I don't provide!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - dear cupid, i am in trouble. my fiance wants to have sex every night, and if i don't feel like having sex he gets really mad and it makes me so unhappy. it's not that i don't love him because i am very much in love with him, but sometimes i am tired and i just want to lay... (127 words)

He bled during oral sex--what could these mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

- i have known this guy for a little while we get along really well and have a lot in common. He is a really lovely guy that takes my breath away. In the weekend we flirted the whole time we were at this party and finally ended up kissing. This kiss felt so different then usual i ... (228 words)

He sleeps with me but doesn't end his relationship--what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6378 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, I'm gay, 20, and have fallen for this amazing guy who's exactly like me. We went on holiday for a month with 6 others (including his boyfriend) and well, on holiday we got to know each other more. We kissed and got really close. Once we came back we both admitted that we ... (102 words)

Our relationship is wearing me down--what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years, we have lived together for two. For the last year I feel as though we are more like roommates than anything. We don't talk because every time I try, he just gets offensive. We have only had sex twice in the last year. He says we have ... (156 words)

I feel a chemistry with a man who isn't my husband--is it all in my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - dear cupid, i'm in a bit of a dilemma, to say the least. i've been married for nearly 7 years though cant say it's been any kind of relationship apart from co parenting for at least 4 and i am terribly lonely and miss love in my life and my husband has become really cold and... (541 words)

I like a girl who is with someone else--what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 26-29 - I am 12. There is this girl and she has a boy friend and they have been together quite a while. I really want this girl to like me too, but if I get between her and her boyfriend it might spoil our relationship so WHAT DO I DO? ... (51 words)

My girlfriend doesn't want to get back together--is there any hope?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex girlfriend 6 months ago--we had been together for four years (we are both 28). Another girl came on to me and I did not tell my ex for two months. I have tried so hard to get back with her but she does not want me back. Do you think I should just try and ... (101 words)

I want to please my girlfriend--can anyone tell me where the G-spot is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I really need help! My girlfriend came round the other day and we tried to improve on what we'd kind of achieved already. She tossed me off and I came, but when I fingered her I don't think I got her anywhere near! I keep reading that the "vaginal canal" is like wide... ... (196 words)

I got her to kiss me, but now I don't kow what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid, First time I have written; I really like my friend a lot, even though she has just gotten with someone recently. The thing is I told her and she wanted me to kiss her so I did. She felt guilty afterwards because of our friendship and the fact she was seeing some... (140 words)

He isn't affectionate and said he doesn't care about sex--is this a permanent thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Back in December a guy I had met through friends asked me if I wanted to start a band, as he plays guitar and I sing and am learning guitar. It was just an acoustic thing to play locally. We started practicing a lot and became great friends, writing songs, we had the same... (474 words)

He said he was a nice guy, but then he asked for a sexy pic--is he just trying it on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - 9 times out of 10 when I'm walking home I always see this lad and he always smiles at me. I never really noticed til the other week then I realised he has always smiled at me. The other day I was on a friend's profile and I found his, so i added him as a friend and we start... (171 words)

Do all men play games?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Do all men play games? I realize I've been out of the dating scene for most of my adult life due to a long term relationship that ended. I am seeing a new guy, and we've been together for about a year but I still get the feeling at times, that he plays games with me. After ... (322 words)

He said we had a connection--but now nothing. What does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. We broke up really badly--I left him for someone else. Yikes. Then we pretty much ignored each other for months.. until a party came around. He got really drunk and told me we have a "connection" and that I was his "first love" ... (120 words)

I can't stop cheating--why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) age 41-50 - I'm a young woman who has committed the cardinal sin of cheating. When my boyfriend and I broke up over a year ago, I had a fling with a man from work. Once we got back together, moved back in together, I slept with this man again. I was guilt ridden and horrified with my ... (171 words)

How can I know for sure if my girlfriend is cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. She's very private when it comes to her emails, text messages and phone calls. She was never so secretive before with any of that. Recently I "went down" on her and smelled and tasted latex faintly. Since it was later in the day I fi... (115 words)

My girlfriend doesn't trust me because I have girls on my facebook and myspace pages!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf recently got very mad at me for having girls on my msn and my facebook. she even found out that i had a conversation with an ex gf of mine, i ensured her it was nothing and just a catch up (which it was) but now she says she doesnt trust me, she says i wont cheat on her ... (148 words)

Has masturbating changed me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 15 and have been masturbating since last year and I've noticed my "stuff" has stretched and become a brownish purply colour...what does this mean??... (26 words)

My girlfriend cheated on me--what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend cheated on me--we have been together 5 yrs, lived together for 3 yrs and now living apart until we find a house. She went away working and came back and confessed that she slept with someone...it was a one off she said. What do I do? I really love her.... (54 words)

She broke up with me because she didn't want a relationship, now she's coming out with signs that could be flirtacious! What am I to think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and I recently broke up as she felt she wasn't ready to be in a relationship. She still feels strongly about me, but says she's trying to force herself to get over me due to her not wanting a relationship at the moment. However, she has said things about wishing ... (303 words)

I think she's gone off me. How can I make us become more close?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i have got a girlfriend and we havnt been going out long . only a few weeks . But i want to see her alot more and we dont seem very close. She was a lot more flirty just a couple of weeks ago but now i seem to think she has gone off me. How can i get us two to become closer ... (74 words)

We want to be together for the rest of our lives but we keep arguing due to jealousy.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hey, I have a problem with my gf, well ex gf. we have been broken up for a few months and recently started talking and trying to sort things out to try and get back together, we both love eachother very much but we dont know if the other can change how we want them to. we fight ... (109 words)

He said to her that I like him more than he likes me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started recently dating this guy and its been about two weeks. My best friend is his best friend which I like because I get information. Just last week he told her that he feels that I like him a lot more then he likes me. Which is weird because I feel the same way about ... (103 words)

She suddenly broke up with me after a normal night out with my mates.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - My relationship with my girlfriend seemed to be going really well, and after a normal night out with some friends she suddenly broke up with me. She's had some mental health problems since well before we started dating, and when we were first deciding whether to date or not s... (468 words)

I feel sad all the time and I don't have a clue as to why.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) age 30-35 - i feel sad all the time but i do not know whats wrong with me or why i feel this way,i have no or little self confidence at the moment , i do not ever tell my mum or friends they just assume i am the happiest person in the world but i really am not. alot of the time i feel like ... (245 words)

I'm still concerned about how to tell my teacher that I'm sorry for bullying them.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am writing again about the teacher I bullied and Im scared to say sorry because it has been so long. Im scared to get in trouble for talking to her though. She may freak out if I approach her. I have lost all my confidence, I only talk to my mates and I really... (111 words)

Reporting back - I fancy my teacher, she seems to feel the same way.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Me again...The one who fancies teacher, teacher feels same. I just dont know how to get her too stop. Today I was with my girlfriend, I was holdin hands with her and flirting so the teacher could get the message but she just walked faster to catch up to us, walked beside... (140 words)

She's getting married but she has feelings for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - This girl I really like initiated some dates with me about two months ago. I wasn't sure at first how I felt about her in that way. I'd known her for about three months before that and we'd gotten on alright. However, over the past six weeks I've found myself falling for her. ... (416 words)

All my guy mates end up fancying me and then when I reject them, I lose them as friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) age 30-35 - my love life is such a puddle at the moment so is my life in genereal im in sixthform and at the start of the year i was having an absolute blast i loved every minute of it i was so popular everyone wanted to be my friend i had all the guys falling at my feet all asking to be ... (277 words)

What do you think is going on with him and what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

- I need help again! My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago because he's afraid of commitment and he feels like we're not right for each other. I've told him twice now that we cannot contact each other anymore and he says that he respects my wishes. After I've told him ... (197 words)

Is it possible to still be crazy on your spouse even once you've been married a while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi this may sound daft but is it possibly common to have known someone all their lives, been best friends, fell in love and then got married because everyone says at some point this never seems to work out because they haven't had any experience with anyone else and at some ... (146 words)

I don't want to waken up in the morning and the guy I'm with thinks "oh my god" because I don't have my make up on! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not braggin or anyfin but i do find myself quite attractive...dat is after a WHOLE HOUR in the morning doin my hair and make-up! The fing is, i'm obsessed wiv looking good, as most female teenagers are - in takin care wiv their appearance! However, I feel so ugly undernea... (102 words)

I don't know how to get over my ex--please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - OK, here is my situation..if there is any advice I would appreciate it. Me and my ex dated for 5 months or so and it was great, we'd fight some then have sex to vent frustrations. I lived 30 minutes from her and couldn't drive, so when we did see each other we'd either h... (247 words)

My girlfriend said she wanted space, but then didn't take any--what is up with that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - A few nights ago my girlfriend said our relationship was over and she needed a break and space. The next morning she called and spoke to me as if nothing happened. She then called me through-out the weekend. Is this normal behaviour? ... (46 words)

My boyfriend see-saws back and forth between me and another girl--I'm scared I'll lose him to her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - So im really in Love with my boyfriend but our relationship has been a bit rocky....lets face it whos isnt at a teen age. After two months earlier broke it off on acount of work and crazyiness and i felt i wasnt meeting his needs. A month later i figured i was wrong to break ... (540 words)

I tried to trick her into being jealous and now it's backfired--help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, The entire fours years her and I have been together I have been faithful. She has refused to marry me and gives me a bullshit excuse about beliefs. It has eaten me up really badly. I tried to make her come around by making her jealous. I posted ads on the internet and... (124 words)

I spent a peaceful night with my friend...now I'm confused about where we stand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

- I have a female friend I feel very comfortable with. Last night I was at her house. We lost track of time and I realised I'd probably miss the last transport home. She said I could stay and I said yes. In the morning I felt very contented waking up with her and we held ... (173 words)

My boyfriend is hiding things regarding money--what is he up to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my boyfriend is hiding things from me, even the stupidest things. He takes all of his money with him even to work(constuction worker). He didn't tell me he borrowed money from Amscot or didn't ask me to borrow the money. We have lived together for 8 months and have ... (65 words)

We've never kissed anyone before--how do we get the first kiss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this guy who really likes me and I really like him too... I want to kiss him and he told me that he would kiss me, but he's never kissed anyone before--neither have I. What do I say to him to persuade him? ... (46 words)

My partner says he doesn't like sex because of the mess--what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been in a gay relationship for four years and only a week ago did we discuss the reasons as to why my partner never wants sex of any kind and I mean nothing in four years. It has been so bad I decided to accept that I would remain celibate for the rest of my days. Then ... (281 words)

I haven't had my period, but a pregnancy test was negative--help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really really confused--my boyfriend and I had sex about a month and a half ago with no contraception. I still haven't had my period, so I did a pregnancy test and it said I wasn't. Can you help me? I don't know what it could be.... (51 words)

I cheated before, but now I want to let my boyfriend know I'm his alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I want to show my boyfriend that I can be a special woman and I want to show him that I am worthy of his love. I had a really bad past when I was younger and then I cheated on him about 6 months ago at a college party. He doesn't trust me but he's willing to work ... (92 words)

We are more off than on--can I make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, I have been seeing this guy, on and off for four years now. Every year, we get together for about a week, then stop speaking for the rest of the year. These weeks are usually the highlight of my year. I think I am in love with him, because everytime I see ... (124 words)

I can't stop binge eating--can you help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey...I've got a bad problem. I binge eat like crazy!It's really getting to me now as I'm really trying to lose weight for my prom but I can't help but eat anything in sight. I don't think I'm fat, I just seem to be putting a lot of weight onto my sides giving me love ... (140 words)

I'm about to have a baby and I can't get my man to get a job--do I leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 8 and a half months pregnant. I am supporting my fiance because he will not get a job. I pay his child support for his 7 year old, his cigarettes, food, car, gas- everything! He drives my car and lives in my house. I'm running out of money fast and he gets defensive when I ... (102 words)

I want to cheat with a taken guy--can I justify it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Hoping you guys can give me some advice, I have a crush on a guy who comes into my place of work (not a colleague) I really like him and I'm certain the feeling is mutual, but he has a girlfriend. I know we can't have a relationship, which suits me fine (I'm in a relati... (100 words)

My friend is crushing on teachers--what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6232 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. I'm 15 years old and I'm writing because I'm concerned about my friend. She's in love with one of the teachers at my school and gets turned on by another one and says she wants to have sex with him. My friend doesn't see why it's wrong to feel this way towards a teache... (64 words)

I broke up with my BF 3 weeks ago... I think I now also need to end the friendship! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of three years because I just didn't know if he was the one for me. I just wanted some time for myself to think things through. And of course, to have some fun while I am single. We have been broken up for only three weeks. We said we'd ... (173 words)

Now that her ex knows about me, shes not sure how she feels!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello there, i really need advice :( I have been completely devastated, and dont know what to do. there is a girl in my life, who i have known for over 2 years. she and i both had respectible relationhips, yet i finished mine before she did. about 2/3 months ago she also fin... (200 words)

I'm not sure if I've had an orgasm?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - When being fingered or being given oral in a particular way--which is good--I begin to shudder/shake which I cannot control. Am I orgasming or is it the build up to one? Or is it just the reaction to the stimulation? I can't say if I've orgasmed because I'm not sure what it... (66 words)

She wants her space! How can she turn off her feelings so suddenly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Me and my ex have both just graduated from university, we have been together for about 2 1/2 months, although we have known each other since the beginning but i was to shy to make a move until now. Now uni has finished she is going back home for the summer (greece) and ... (261 words)

Will my crush on my teacher ever go away?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5677 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I've posted on here sveral times bout this teacher hu i really fancy! I've been browsin the site and hav been looking into other ppl's posts with a similar problem as me. Anywayz, alot of the the advice seys dat it will pass over in time! I've been obsessed with this teacher ... (72 words)

I visit prostitutes about once a week and it taking it's toll on me! Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6307 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi! I´m a 27 years old guy who has a problem with prostitutes. I have not girlfriend for long time and everytime i feel the need of have sex i go to see prostitutes or i even call them to visit me to my house. I usually have sex with a prostitute ones a week or ones e... (197 words)

My married bf has no time for me, now and I'm depressed about it! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi friends I am married and after my 1st child born, i love to someone in my office in first sight love. Till now I am in love with him (means 12 years now) I love him so much and he also love me too. I don't know why I do not have any kind of feelings with my husband. I wa... (210 words)

Do you think this online man loves me? Any views?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, i recently entered a marriage website then there was this man who used to contact me every day but i was not answering him cause for some reason i found him weird ,he kept on like that for 2 months.then he suddenly stopped. after sometime i read his profile it said ... (145 words)

His ex wife drinks and harasses us! What can we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been going out with a wonderful man for almost 6 months, we always have a laugh together and have recently been on holiday together with his 10 year old son. He's been seperated from his wife for just over a year and recently she's been drinking heavily over the... (366 words)

I want a long term relationship, but I hate the pressure--please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I always seem to fuck up my relationships with guys because I don't like the pressure--I can't have a long term relatioship and I realy want one, but whenever I find someone I freak out and dump them. I don't know what to do, please help me.... (48 words)

My boyfriend told me I was too big--now I am depressed and uncomfortable with him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - Hello, I am 27 years old. I have been through a lot the past year. I left my husband after 10 years. I lost my father, who was my rock. I lost almost everything me and my four kids owned. I have been in a new relationship for about 10 or 11 months. I am in love with thi... (240 words)

I want a threesome, but my boyfriend doesn't--can I convince him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5967 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

- I had a fantasy of having a threesome with two guys. I have a boyfriend and a guy that would join in, but my boyfriend is funny about seeing another naked guy. My boyfriend also wants me all to himself. He doesn't want to try with two girls because he wants me to be the only... (83 words)

My husband won't communicate with me--I'm desperate for help!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4131 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Please can someone who either 1) has 1st hand experience in these things or 2) is able to give positive advice instead of saying the words 'leave him' or 'you should never have married him' kind of advice answer this. I am totally beside myself and feel like I have made the ... (771 words)

My partner has been having an affair with another woman... she's cut off contact but is mourning the loss!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I have posted messages on this subject before but things developed. My civil partner has a long friendship with a girl she met in Sweden 6 years ago (We have been together 6 years also, something was developing before we met but never transpired as she moved to the UK). ... (302 words)

I'm on a trip around the world and worried I'm drinking (far) too much!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

- I just cant stop drinking... Im on a years trip around the world..trip of a lifetime yes? Im ruining it ...I just cant stop... I dont really want to go home just now but I cant find a programme in English to help me... any ideas? For the first time in my life Im really ... (68 words)

When my girlfriend says she is finished, does that mean she has orgasmed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - When fingering my girlfriend she eventually moves my hand away to tell me she has finished.. does this mean she has orgasmed, or just comed? I mean is it possible come without orgasm? ... (33 words)

How can I do more for my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - How to be in a relationship forever I want to be taught how to love my girlfriend. I had a problem of wanting to change but i have failed and all i want is to relax and be happy. How do i avoid arguments how do i love her more appreciate her make her feel happy. Make her ... (80 words)

I don't condone dating, yet I have a boyfriend; I want to be with him, yet I feel I'm wasting my time. I'm so confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a boyfriend and I love him dearly.. ONLY ONE PROBLEM!! I swore to myself that I would never date. I have my own reasons but I don't condone the idea of dating. but still I fell in love and now I am here. he is my first boyfriend ever and we've been together for a year ... (141 words)

I've never had an orgasm even though I've had 8 lovers

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5813 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help, Im, 25 and Ive never had an orgasm , Ive only been in 2 serious relationships but ive been with about 8 guys so I dont know what the problem is?... (34 words)

I understand that he needed to choose his kids over me but it hurts so much

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

- Hi So far last week my bf of a yr broke up with me He is in the army and lives down south His kids live up north with his ex Because of the army job he only gets one weekend off a month to see them. He cant cope with this and has decided to give it another go with his ex s... (458 words)

I'm afraid a relationship means the end of my freedom

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25 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Athough i want to make a good relationship i think that i will lose my freedom and i would'nt have time for myself if i am with someone a lot of hours every week. So i don't really ask from the other person to be together a lot of time every week and he doesn't make a try to ... (103 words)

We broke up even though I think it was love. He's mentioned dating again; should I consider it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5979 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend had been dating for 3 of 4 months...we did almost everything together. in march my daddy passed away and he had stayed at the hospitol w/ me the whole time..i thought adn still think it was love...after he broke up w/ me he started dating his ex girlfriend ... (115 words)

She's moving away but I have strong feelings for her

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25 June 2007 (M)

- I’ve liked a woman for a while. We like each other but she’s scared of entering into a relationship because of the emotional roller coaster that comes with it. She’s scared of the risk. We’re really close, I feel really close to her and we’ve talked about it openly. We ... (152 words)

We've been together for quite a while but now she wants to slow down our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Cupid Ive been in a relationship with the most amazing woman ive ever met for 45months now and couldnt be more in love! We've had a tough time over the duration of our 45months. She's white and im black.My mom was quite easy with it all and happy for us but her mother ... (219 words)

I think she lied about having plans and I felt disrespected, so I brushed her off; I'm still thinking of her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

- A month ago I went out with this women and had a fantastic time. We both really liked each other. The first date went really well and she kept telling me what an exceptional time she was having at the end. She’s a beautiful women that gets a lot of attention and is used to ... (314 words)

I'm trying to hide who I really am to keep him while everything else seems hopeless

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I have abandonment issues which Im worried will eventually destroy my relationship..oh and I dont understand men. Ive just started seeing someone I adore, hes beautiful, so handsome sometimes Im shy to look at him. Hes kind, gentle and always comes up with fun things for u... (559 words)

I feel no-one likes me because of my race

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6390 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I feel liek no one pays attention to me. All teh girls seems to go for the light skined guys. I'm mexican and can't seem to fit in. I've had troble finding that someone. I don't feel very atracted to my own kind. I need help. I don;t know what to do. I dont like my kind, and ... (70 words)

I have a mole on my face that makes me shy

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5024 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help bulding courage and faith in telling this girl how i feel? This may seems pretty stupid but I have a (black)mole on my face and it isn't really noticeable (2mm radius) that is the only thing I hate about myself. it seems that because of it I lose confident. ... (159 words)

My 'friend with benefits' is meeting a girl and I'm jealous

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - How deal with friends with benefits? My roommate and I have been "friends with benefits" for nine years. Tomorrow this girl he has been talking to is coming home. During this week he has mention her name to me more than once. For example, he said it is going to be long night be... (96 words)

I don't know which of them I love more

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a serious problem im in love with two guys. Guy:A i have known for a few years as friends and about 3-4 months ago he asked me out since then we've been going out and its his first real relationship. since we started dating he has hurt me several times and lied about ... (217 words)

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend sometimes denies it's his; I think he may be cheating too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

- I am almost 8 months pregnant. Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 11 months. He has an ex who says that they are still having sex. One day I seen he had a hickey on his neck and I could still swear that i didn't do. If i did I don't remember... I am so confused, ... (112 words)

I've never orgasmed with a man, only a vibrator; I've started faking it

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I need sex help. I currently have a sexual relationship with someone I'm really attracted to, but I can never seem to orgasm. I've only been with two men and I couldn't orgasm with either of them. I don't think I'v even come close. I use a vibrator and I can climax with ... (144 words)

I'm in love with two different girls

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25 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hi i find myself in a .... difficult situation, im in love with two girls lets say girl "A" i love because we get along so well and she's intresting however she is the more recent of the two. girl "j" i have lots in common with we like the same music, clothing styles and ... (140 words)

I have faded stretch marks on my breasts; is this a turn-off for men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Um, well the thing is, is that im super insecure about my breasts. I have a nice set, or so Im told, but the have stretch marks on them because they grew so fast. The stretch marks arent that visible they are a white color but Im always afraid that when a guy I like will see ... (73 words)

How do I say no to dating him without ruining our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay one of my best friends, Cat, recently broke up with her boyfriend. Now he claims that he's in love with me and recently broke the news to Cat. She asked me if I had feelings for him and I said I obviously didnt. Now he wants to ask me out...how do I brake it to him I have ... (68 words)

I kissed another girl when I was drunk; should I tell my girlfriend and risk hurting her, or keep it quiet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

25 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, i am 18 years old and a freshman in college. my girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. i truly think this girl is "the one" for me and i am very much in love with her. i know it's early on in the relationship, but i can't help how i feel. a couple of weeks into ... (234 words)

Can the DearCupid men elaborate on their views on porn?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 6361 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I just read some answers to a question that was posted about porn and some answers from you guys were that men look at porn stars who are completely different for what they go for in real life and it's not a threat at all to their partner. Huh?! I don't get it! Can you ... (146 words)

We broke up but he won't back off

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25 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, im 17 and my ex is 20, we broke up about 2 weeks ago because he was way too immature. ive moved on but he hasnt. hes very bipolar and immature. hes going through my friends and trying to talk to them, he makes it clear he wants me back but hes trying to make me soo m... (142 words)

I'm in a loveless marriage; should I leave?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age - Do I abandon a passionless marriage? He loves me, I know -- but he's not in love with me, never has been. And he's trying, he knows we're in deep stuff here. But it's been 20+ years of little romance, an ever-decreasing amount of sex, and such a lack of 'connection' lately. I ... (232 words)

One of my breasts is smaller than the other, is this normal?

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25 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi iam really :S my left breast is smaller than my right is this normal or not.. do i need to go to my doctors to see if i need it up lifting or... HELP???? it hold my self back from bein touch by anyone....... (45 words)

My friend I've flirted with for years has told me he's gay

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6390 days ago

25 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my boy mate have been mates for 3 years now when we get drunk we always fool around and every1 always asks when we are goin to get it 2gether now he has just told me hes gay and im love with him and i have not got a clue what to do help... (56 words)