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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm a woman in my 40s, been separated for a year now and when I date, I tend to go for the younger guys.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age - I'm a woman in my 40s, been separated for a year now and when I date, I tend to go for the younger guys. Ages range from 27 to 35 and then I had several really sweet dates with a 19 year old. A lot of people would think it's not right, and some of my friends have said I should ... (207 words)

I find myself constantly having to take the leadership role and I am getting tired of it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are both 21, we have been dating for 2 1/2 years and we are starting to talk about marriage. My main concern is that he is not very masculine. He does not have any leadership traits, he is not chivalrous (he has bought me flowers twice in our entire ... (118 words)

What is going on with him? And why hasnt he asked me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

- There is this guy from my workplace who had been showing an interest in me since before Xmas. He would always stare at me and smile when I walked in the room. He would also sometimes rub my shoulder. Although I was always polite and professional with him, I never showed an ... (157 words)

My life just seems to be going from bad to worse...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help I dont know what to do. My life just seems to be going from bad to worse...im stuck in a dead end job, despite having 4 a levels a gnvq and 12 gcse's, i have about 3 real friends, the rest who i call friends are just friends from work or through other people i know ... (184 words)

How do I get over my relationship which was just ruined today?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I get over my relationship which was just ruined today.i used to date this guy(dixon).i got to love him so much.he started acting funny.when i told him he stopped doing things he used to do before and how unhappy i was,he said we should go our separate ways that he is ... (71 words)

I'm scared if I see him all these feelings will come flooding back and I'll be back to square one but if he contacts me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

- I was with this guy for 4 and a half years and although he initiated the break up I knew it was for the best. Our relationship was very volatile when i was good it was great but when it was bad it was awful. The bad out weighed the good. Although I knew it was for the best I ... (299 words)

He's already made out with her and he's only TEN!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6203 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently My 10 year old cousin who lives with us has got a new girlfriend but shes 13 and I dont trust her and when she comes round , they run straight up to his bedroom and if I walk in they suddenly jump and shout at me to get out and he's already made out with her and hes ... (84 words)

I have a massive crush on this lad but he's just gone and got himself a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6396 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a massive crush on some lad in my form and hes my best mate and were always goofing around but Recently he got a girlfriend and Im really jealous and I cant take it soo Im not talking to either of them. But his girlfriend found out that I have a crush on him and she told ... (115 words)

Why does my mum blame me for EVERYTHING?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - My mum takes everything out on me. She blames me for everything like if the fridge has broken , she would say its all my fault and she says its my fault that Her blood pressure is high and also she says its my fault that she couldnt have a proper life because she had me young ... (144 words)

I am in a relationship with a lovely guy who is perfect in every way apart from one: he doesn't like to go down on me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

- Hi. so I am in a relationship with a lovely guy who is perfect in every way apart from one: he doesn't like to go down on me! He doesn't like the smell or the texture of women's bits!and this hurts me, as i feel unattractive and unloved when he is so apprehensive about go... (266 words)

I have my best friend and I really like hanging with her but she's friends with some lads who hate me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have my best friend and I really like hanging with her but she's friends with some lads who hate me. When I go out with my best mate , She always invites these lads and they always spit on me or call me horrible names or push me over and sometimes my friend joins in! I ende... (79 words)

I feel like im the only one that's trying in this relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am diagnosed with Dysthymia (depression) and my relationship is going well down hill. My partner of over 10 months makes me feel as though I am just another person in the crowd. He doesnt make me feel special anymore and his distance has extended since he got a full time job... (286 words)

Who do I choose... my boyfriend or my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6396 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

- Hi, Im been in a relationship with a guy that ive fancied for ages. We've been togther only a few months and I really and i mean REALLY like him. However My ex, Wants me back. I still like him and I keep changing my mind about Getting back with him! I don't wanna hurt my ... (83 words)

I've asked him out but he says he just want to have fun!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i split up with my boyfriend about 6 months ago, and when my work mates found out they were really cool and tried cheering me up. yet there was one bloke name "john" who suddenly started talking to me and tryin it on saying he fancied me since i started. i told him that i wasnt ... (133 words)

Can anybody tell me why men are such commitment phobes and why they like to lead women on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

- Can anybody tell me why men are such commitment phobes and why they like to lead women on?... (18 words)

When ever anyone has a problem i always have to butt in, know what happened and try and help. It nearly always makes the situation worse.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - When ever anyone has a problem i always have to butt in, know what happened and try and help. It nearly always makes the situation worse. I try not to but i can't help my self. What is wrong with me? how can i stop this? please help!... (48 words)

Should I have sex with him even although I'm only 15 and don't want to yet?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been wiv my boyfriend for about 2 years and we havn't had sex yet because i think am too young (am 15) we're both virgins and i think he wants to have sex do u think i should or not even though i dont want to yet?... (49 words)

We're trying for another baby, how do we make sure it's going to be a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi this is gona sound daft but i have a 14 month old daughter and my husband and i are trying for another baby but we both would like another girl for the simple reason that we only have a 2 bedroom house and everything weve ever bought is pink!! does anyone have any ideas on ... (76 words)

I want to leave my marriage. I seem to have a block about it. I just can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age - I'm hoping for some insight, anbody please! I've been married for 15 years to a kind, reliable man. I knew at the time of our wedding I was making a mistake as I didn't love him as much as I should have. For the past 15 years I've thought about leaving but just can't bring ... (237 words)

I lost my virginity a couple of weeks ago and ever since I've been pissing blood is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (M) age 30-35 - erm I lost my virginity a couple of weeks ago and ever since I've been pissing blood is this normal? ... (20 words)

Should I tell her how I feel or is she just making me her "pass the time guy" until she finds someone she really likes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

- This is the deal. My ex and I broke up a year and a half ago. She told me that she wanted to have space but was willing to be my friend, which I thought was insane. Anyway, I didn't speak with her for about a while. She text me out of the blue and said she missed me so we ... (251 words)

He's a good dad, I guess but the thought of me spending the rest of my life with someone who can never be serious and who smokes, and who has no goals just makes me mad.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel really bad. I love my boyfriend a lot, but lately I have been having thoughts that I don't want to be having. We have a 2 month old daughter. He was working a lot of hours, and I stay home and take care of her and the house, bills, dinner, groceries, etc..So we were ... (502 words)

Should I sleep with my ex fiance's brother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I sleep with my ex fiance's brother? I love my ex to bits but he has hurt me beyond belief, to the point i think hes drove me crazy, im even considering major revenge. Him and his brother dont really get on, but do to a certain extent. His brother has countle... (200 words)

He has not asked me to see him this weekend yet and I really want to see him shall I ask him what he is up to or is that seeming desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F) - Hi there, I have been seeing a guy for probably about over a month. I have slept in the the same bed with him but we have only kissed as I like him and don't want to rush things. We are in our mid 20's. I don't live really close to him so we usually see each other at th... (143 words)

Should I go for it and ask her out even although she's seeing someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i like this girl who's 14, i'm 16. i think she likes me too. i just found out she is in a relationship with a boy who lives 2 hours away and she see's after about 2 weeks. she never mentioned anything about him. shall i still ask her out on a date?... (54 words)

How does one get over "unrequited love?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - unrequited love.. how does one get over it? i've fallen hard for someone i could never have (different places in life/opposite sides of the planet). this feels so much worse than a breakup. there's just always this feeling of "what if" and i think of him every time i mee... (142 words)

My Nan seems to love winding us all up... worried one day I'll say something hurtful!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this is more of a rant so I will apologise now. I just got off the phone with my Nan, my Dad's mum. She seems to love winding us all up. I know she only does it because she cares but I'm scared one day I'll say something hurtful to her. The phone call today consisted... (523 words)

I want to see him more. Should I be patient or should I just get my keys and try to move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing someone for a few years now. When I first met him he was in a relationship so we decided to break it off, we knew nothing good would come of it if we didn't. About a year later we bumped into each other and he told me he was no longer in a relationship, thay ... (193 words)

Please tell me I did the right thing and I'm not a paranoid, jealous lunatic!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I keep doubting my decision. My BF whom I just ended it for a 2nd time in a year was lying to me, or so I think but he is telling me I'm crazy. He works with a married woman who he would frequently talk about. I put it out of my head as nothing. Then, in the last 2 months ... (221 words)

Can personality overule physical attraction?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Can personality overule physical attraction? If you are attracted only emotionally and personality wise to a person, is this enough to build a relationship?... (24 words)

I think it's important to celebrate mile stones in a relationship but my boyfriend thinks otherwise...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - well i just tried to post this question but aparantly it wasn't clear enough! Me and my boyfriend have been together for one year on the 1st of July. I think it is important that you celebrate being together for a year (im 16, my boyfriend is 20). i think it is special but ... (149 words)

Why do I feel a compelling need to justify any action that could be labelled as selfish?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Why do I feel a compelling need to justify any action that could be labelled as selfish? Is there anything wrong about satisfying your own needs if your caretakers don't do a justice or are rigid / restrictive about what should be your needs ideally rather than giving ... (63 words)

I don't know how to stop loving my husband, and I'm scared of being alone...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6080 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know how to stop loving my husband, and I'm scared of being alone. We've been together 6 years, married for 3. We have 2 small children, and I have a teenage daughter. My husband has always been a little distant emotionally, but lately things have felt really wrong. I ... (335 words)

Would I ever be his girlfriend or will I always just be his booty-call?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Before i started to have sex i use to sneak this guy in and he would lay wit me until i fell asleep. He went off for college but would sleep toegther all the time wen he came for vacations now he is back to live and had a girl but they broke up.We slept together all during this ... (81 words)

I cried the day she called me telling me she lost her virginity (during Holy Week, too).

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a friend who is really pissed at me, and I understand; but she doesn't understand me. I haven't spoken to her since March of this year. She's tried calling me, I avoid her calls... and when I moved away, I disappeared from the world. Now, the why... Since I've kno... (288 words)

he wants to date other people just to see if what we have is meaningful...what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I'm 20 and i've been with my also 20 year old boyfriend for over 3 and a half years. We're high school sweethearts and have had all our firsts together (from first relationship, first kiss to sexual intimacy). I love him very much but lately we've been going th... (168 words)

Is she playing games...am I over-reacting...should I call her? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

- Hi and please help me! Okay, my girl and I broke up (or took a break) and I realized I don't want that... I initiated it 3 weeks ago, and she is still there. My question...monday i phoned her at work, she called me back 3 hours later, but i wasn't in. So I called her later th... (172 words)

When he turns me down for sex..I feel so rejected. What is going on with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6397 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night after work I got to my boyfriends house around 9:30, I suggested we take a shower and hinted at a little more, but he said It's too late as he has to be at work at 5am. This isnt the first time this has happened, I dont ask for it a lot, it's just that I have a big ... (141 words)

Is he likely to leave me to be with his children?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my partner for 2 years now. We lived together but he had to move back to another part of the country. I followed as he said we would get a place together. He has now said he can't move in until his children (living with his ex-wife) have settled in their new home ... (86 words)

Do I want this guy back because I don't like being single? Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i dont no where to start.I was in a serious relationship with a boy from school it was only going on 6 months we were always on and off,but i loved hi.I went on a school trip,abroad,and broke up with him for another guy..!! it was so unexpected but i knew it was s... (200 words)

Is he scared to date me because I'm a freshman and he's a junior?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy in my high school. One of my best friends asked him if he likes me back and he said sort of. Sometimes my crush does things to get my attention. He does things to be near me. He stares and stalks me. The problem is he says he has a girlfriend and I am absolutely ... (165 words)

How do I get over just being a friend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello I have this friend (call her Tina) who is the sister of my best friend (female). I have graduelly got to know Tina since I seperated from my wife, over last 18 months and have become very fond of her and seems very close to her. We do a lot together more as a group my... (220 words)

What is it like to be accepted by someone ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to know what it is like to be accepted by someone or accepting someone you have been in contact with for some time? How is it possible to make this less difficult? ... (42 words)

I dont know what to do, my partner is pregnant and still smoking! I'm healthy and getting sick of the smell!!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner is pregnant and has not stopped smoking - she also drinks occasionally a few drinks at a time...i've kind of got my head round it a bit. However I live with her at her place and hate her smoking when i'm at home - nevermind being bad for the child inside her but i ... (104 words)

He said that work pressured him to watch the freak sex show, I dont believe him, what do you think ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - if u heard that ur bf says that work has pressured him into going in and watching a freak sex show while being on his company trip, would u believe him that he was pressured and gave in or not? cause i don't, i have never let someone pressure me into something in thi... (76 words)

My inadequacies and insecurties are causing me to kill the relationship... Please please help!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am feeling really insecure about myself, i doubt my ability to do anything and cannot seem to look positive at anything? I have a wonderful girlfreind and I am beginning to affect this relationship because I am jealous and insecure.. I feel inadequate in comparrison t... (135 words)

I dont want to date her anymore, let alone go to the dinner party, how do I get out of it politely ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

- I've been invited to a dinner party ona date yet to be confirmed with the girl I've been seeing. I suggested dates I could make. It's primarily her friends attending the dinner. I no longer want to see this girl and I don't want to go to the dinner party. I know I've made a ... (88 words)

Should I get him a fathers day gift even though hes not the biological father ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (?) age 30-35 - hey. well im 15, i was 15 in march just gone and i have the bestest boyfriend in the whole wide world. ever. and i love him lots and lots. we have the sweetest most beautiful baby girl, who is just 6 weeks old named taylor and she is adorable. we both love her to bits as well. ... (220 words)

Had a hot dream about this guy I used to like. Does this mean I still like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

- hey all i dont reali no who to talk bout this.. but here goes last night i had a dream about a lad i used to like,we went out for a couple of days but werent anythin serious i wont go into details but it was very erotic and when i woke up i was horny. Does this mean that i like ... (94 words)

She emails my bf all the time! Is she going after him or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - a friend of my has been emailing my boyfriend whom I've been with for 18months. i sort of blame myself because on my boyfriends birthday(April)i told her to email(gave her his email add) him just to surprise him.i wanted to test her and see if she'd email immediately and she ... (286 words)

If a women wears a ring on her ring finger does that always mean she is taken ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

- If a woman has a ring on the ring finger of her left hand is she necessarily engaged or married, regardless of the style of ring (apart from something obviously temporary, like a Hula Hoop or something out of a cracker)?... (41 words)

Do I ask him to get the tests done or come off the pill and let nature do its thing!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - help i posted a question a while back about my new man not being able to have kids and me wanting another baby, well after speaking about it again he has never had any tests done to prove this he was with his ex for 4 years and for 3 of them they were trying for a baby then ... (157 words)

We date but he cut me off on the phone to chat up another girl! Should I dump him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i'm 13 and i'v been dateing this guy for almost a year now and everything has been alright until a few weeks ago. well i think he is cheating on me or wanting to with a girl he has never met but talks to on the phone while his friends are on the phone with him. today we was ... (126 words)

He wanted space and now he has broken up with me out of the blue!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi i posted a question at the weekend saying that my bf had left for the summer saying he wanted space. He said we'd meet up in the summer and that he missed me and did want to be with me but he just needed to sort himself out. Admittedly i didn't give him the space he neede... (343 words)

I want him here but there's a problem..there may be an arranged marriage in his future.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, wrote a couple of days ago that i feel like my relationship with my long distance b/f is going to end. All i wanted was for him to come live here... The thing is i just realised what i was asking him to do. I know that sound odd but I asked myself the same questions and ... (169 words)

Im always trying to be helpful and romantic, so how do I deal with him cussing and not returning the favour ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hey hey..this question is to anyone..Im with my bf for 3 yrs and we r living together. When it comes to dinners, well, I do them every single day. I like to experiment when cooking so that gives me fun. And once in a while, I do some "romantic" dinners with desert etc.... (257 words)

I've not dated in a while, so I'm in need of tips on how to get a guy to notice me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

- in basic terms i guess my question is how do you get a guy to notice you? i havent had a date in several years and i am going to be moving soon and i want to kind of start over w/ the whole guy thing. ive been told by friends that im a great person, funny and easy to talk ... (112 words)

She's told me her bf will be at our place a lot, when we get to this new flat. I don't like this. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

- so my friend and i are moving up north for college together. we are going to be living together in an apartment or house. my problem is her boyfriend is going to the same college we are and she has already told me that he will probably be over a lot and will be spending the ... (170 words)

Does Marijuana change the taste of semen ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've had 2 boyfriends, my current and my ex. My ex used to smoke cigarettes and I got him to quit sucessfully for his health and I noticed his semen tasted a bit better after a little while. I haven't gone down on my current boyfriend yet and I'm a little concerned; he doesn't ... (103 words)

Is it fair to ask him not to go to bars until I'm 21 aswell!?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I started dating when we were 17 and he has now just turned 21. I don't mind that he is able to drink and does when he can but I am concerned about him going to the bar. We made a promise to each other that we wouldn't go to bars without each other (I turn 21 ... (244 words)

Is it bad I lack experience, sex wise... never done anything with boys

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6398 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 16 and i have Never had a boy finger me or me do anything for a boy.. seems like everyone else has and i feel embarresed to say that ''i lack in sexual experience'' when personally i dont care but when people ask me.. i get ambarresed.. is this bad i lack in it? i dont no ... (61 words)

He went down on me but was too rough with his mouth and now I'm sore.. how can I ease the hurt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hello people, i have a question? my husband and i did 69 for the first time and i couldnt believe how turned on i really was,.i really had high hopes about the whole 69 thing and when he went down on me he couldnt eat me out the right way it was horible he bit me and, sucked w... (146 words)

Was I in the wrong for doubting her after receiving a tip off ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Well, its me again. I was the one who received the email about my girlfriend cheating on me. To recap: I received an email that said look in her myspace inbox in september. I found some incriminating evidence, it supported the accusation. I confronted her. S... (111 words)

Problems about climaxing, way too soon..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i always seem to climax a lot sooner when i am with someone than when i am not. i know some of it is natural, but if my boyfriend and i do stuff, i dont want to look lame. what can i do?... (45 words)

My partner wants me to marry her, but my parents dont! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - I need help with my relationship between my partner and my parents. I am 35 year old divorced man. I got divorced about 4 years ago. I Cought my ex cheating. anyway, I have been going out with this new girl for 9 months now and we love each other. First, she is very bossy an... (236 words)

My boyfriend forced me to have sex, but Im sure he didnt mean it, what should I do ?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6399 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend. I'm 16 and he's 22. I told him I wasn't ready for sex until I'm 18. He said he feels the same way and would never force me to do what I didn't want to. Well, that was a lie. He got drunk one night when I was over at his house and he threw me to the floor ... (137 words)

Any ideas how I can boost my self esteem again after having my daughter ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6400 days ago

14 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a beautiful 12 month daughter and a wonderful husband which happens to be in Iraq right now. Since i had my daughter my self-esteem has been terrible. I went from 95lbs to 210lbs. I have now gotten down to 128 but as much weight as i have lost it hasn't help my ... (137 words)

Trouble between flatmates

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14 June 2007 (F)

- I live in a houseshare with a another girl. We have lived together for about a year. We used to get along really well but then she got a boyfriend. They fight nearly every weekend but she's adamant that she's happy and she loves him. Even when I hear their fighting and ask her ... (228 words)

Whats the deal with whose needs should come first !?

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14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Im not sure why this is bothering me but it is so im going to ask it. Who should be first in a serious relationship? Men and women, asnswers please. If your a man do u put your needs ahead of your womans? If your a woman do u put his needs ahead of your own? Now why im asking ... (146 words)

He has started with the online porn again and we have no sex life. Do I leave?

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14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married a little over a year. He has told countless lies, primarily about money and online pornography. We went to couples counseling briefly, and it was pointless. Now I don't ever believe anything he says. He has started with the online porn ... (77 words)

He needs space before the next step and I am so confused!!

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14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfirend of three years has asked for some time. We are supposed to move in together this December and i am starting school by his house this summer. He said that he loves me but just wnats to be sure that this is it. We still talk a little on the phone and text here an ... (171 words)

Married my husband but still in love with my soulmate!

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14 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem. I am married to my husband but i'm in love with another man. I don't know what to do. The guy who had taken my virginity is who I am in love with even before I married my husband. I haven't seen or heard from that guy for 2 years now. I know he doesn't want ... (211 words)

Is my hang-up on older guys just a phase??

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14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never really talked about guys as much as i have until now. I've worked at a family business since I was 10 years old. I take care of the customers and tend the store just about every day of my life. And I'm wondering if thats affecting my attraction towards older gu... (276 words)

Do I stick around as his friend or let go??

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14 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hi.... I currently have a friend who lives quite far away, i met him through my friend (he's a relative). We met a couple of years ago, then last december started talking online and on the phone a lot. We talked for hours at a time, most conversations were anywhere from 2-4... (212 words)

Does he like me or is it just the drink??

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14 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Complicated... Here's the situation I've known this guy through his mom for like 6 years. (I work with his mom) We are friends. We hung out last year for a concert and we ended up making out (we were both drinking). I think we both have a crush on each other but we are both ... (168 words)

Would it hurt to lose my virginity when I'm drunk?

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14 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm almost 17 and am ready to have sex. I'm going to be honest, I'm gorgeous and a party girl - so boys date me under the impression we'll have sex. Of course once they find out I'm a virgin they run. If I have never done anything beyond making out and drysex, would it hurt to ... (66 words)