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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I feel liek no one pays attention to me. All teh girls seems to go for the light skined guys. I'm mexican and can't seem to fit in. I've had troble finding that someone. I don't feel very atracted to my own kind. I need help. I don;t know what to do. I dont like my kind, and all the rest don't seems to even give me a glance. help. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, myp +, writes (25 June 2007):
Jeez thats hard. You have to make a move, you cant expect girls to come to you...they wont, they almost never do. If you like somebody (even if their not mexican) go say hi or make them laugh. Its perfectly fine not to be attracted to your own race. Be yourself and youll make friends with good people. Personally, i've never really been into light skinned guys myself, but everyones different. You cant assume people dont pay attention to you because of your race, you have to put yourself out there or no one will notice you no matter what your color.what state do you live in?message me if you want to talk =)-Myesha
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