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writes:I always seem to fuck up my relationships with guys because I don't like the pressure--I can't have a long term relatioship and I realy want one, but whenever I find someone I freak out and dump them. I don't know what to do, please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): If you were in the US, and are 13-15, I would ask you what are you thinking wanting to be in a long-term relationship? Pardon me, but you are a child, and need to stop thinking in terms of valueing yourself based on whether or not you have a boyfriend...boys at your age are geeks! They are much less mature than girls at this age, are not interested in a relationship with a girl, and haven't a clue as to go about having one....Make Friends and forget about trying to grow up to fast....your youth is fleeting, you don't have any real responsibilities and you need to enjoy your schooling and get into some hobbies that don't have to include boys, like horseback riding, sports, knitting, cooking or reading clubs, dance, excercise, skiing, anything you can think of that interests you....make plans past next week to get together with some great girlfriends and have some fun why don't you....and it wouldn't hurt if you stop using the f word it is not very feminine to talk like a sailor or a truck driver....
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (25 June 2007):
 Why not take some time out from serious relationships and have fun. You are only young and obviously not ready for being in a long term commitment. There is plenty of time. Just live your life and somebody will come come along and sweep you off your feet and you wont freak out!
xxxxx
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reader, flower girl +, writes (25 June 2007):
 Judging by your age i can totally understand why you don't like the pressure you don't need it you should be out there enjoying yourself having lots of fun and as long as you ar being safe then thats all that should matter right now.
Don't put so much pressure on yourself about having a long term relationship as there is plenty of time for that, and you will know when the right one comes along,
Take care.xx.
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