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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hi, I really need help! My girlfriend came round the other day and we tried to improve on what we'd kind of achieved already. She tossed me off and I came, but when I fingered her I don't think I got her anywhere near! I keep reading that the "vaginal canal" is like wide... but.... I don't know... I want to find her G-Spot, but I have no idea where it is. I kept feeling this bone which moved up and down depending on what position her legs where in. This is about as far as I could reach. Is the G-spot further down? Are my fingers just too short? Also, when I do this I'm kissing her, so I don't have any visual aids, its dead hard to even find where her clit is - I don't know if I've even hit that spot properly yet! Can someone give me some aids, like... I read somewhere that to find the G-spot you should be aiming to touch the back of her belly button or something... is that true? Please help i wanna do for my gf what she's done for me!!!
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reader, lucygirl +, writes (25 June 2007):
maybe this will help, oh and about the clitoris thing, its a little ball shaped figure about a half inch down from where lips start to form, but be careful, its very sensitive!
This is for the g-spot:
Insert a finger (or two), about 2 inches, and then slightly crook them. You want your finger’s facing forward, sorta like you are making the motion of “come here” with your fingers. You’ll be touching the front side of her vagina, with your finger’s wrapped around her pubic bone.
From this place, experiment with a variety of pressure – hard, soft, light, etc. We’ve found its often best to start touching as if your finger’s are windshield washers – with a constant pressure, sorta going back and forth.
You may feel a particular area which is more rough than other area’s, possibly ribbed or bumpy. This is the g-spot. As you stimulate it, the gspot will often become larger and more present as it get engorged. At this point, some women prefer harder pressure, but most prefer softer pressure (so the opposite of the clitoris).
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reader, myp +, writes (25 June 2007):
G-spots great but if you want to be consistent your best bet is her clit.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vagina
go down to the sexual activity part and you can read about g-spots.
http://www.infosex.com/pics/clit.jpg
this is your best bet, shows you where the clit is
best of luck
-Myesha
message me if you want to talk or you have questions =)
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