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writes: Dear cupid,First time I have written; I really like my friend a lot, even though she has just gotten with someone recently.The thing is I told her and she wanted me to kiss her so I did. She felt guilty afterwards because of our friendship and the fact she was seeing someone else. At first she was cold, but now she's fine--she dances with me quite explicitly in front of her girlfriend and tried to kiss me. She also tried to bring the whole thing up but i stopped her from doing so. So I have a feeling she likes me...how do I get around this without it effecting our friendship if there is nothing there? And is there any real indications of her liking me through body language?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, natalie-ann +, writes (26 June 2007):
natalie-ann is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for all off your help i appreciate it, all i need to do now is post another question about the situation and hope i get this sorted out by thursday long story short yh her gf is not local. thanks again xXx
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reader, Amyjean +, writes (26 June 2007):
I have recently found that I love my best girfriend, previously it was just boys. I was surprisedby myself but it is the best thing that has happened to us both.What i would say is go for it! your gf does not seem as perfect as mine but give it a try.i think you need to be a little wary at first and if it doesn't work out , drop it.
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reader, AskEve +, writes (25 June 2007):
This is a very good question. Be very careful here though, I think she's just teasing you. She knows you like her now and is trying to see just how far she can get with you. Don't fall for it, even although you like her you've got to remember she's with someone else! The next time she makes a move on you then turn her down. Tell her you think she's cool but you're not going there. After all, would YOU like it if a girlfriend of yours started to get off with another guy? What comes around goes around so be very careful.
Besides, if you play harder to get with her then she may realise that she likes you more than she thought she did and dump the boyfriend to get with you. Women like a challenge so don't play into her all the time. Stand up for yourself and what you believe and let her see that for now, you're off limits!
Eve
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reader, myp +, writes (25 June 2007):
its sounds like she likes you, she acts like she likes you, so she must like you. I dont think pursuing a romantic relationship would damage your friendship. if you guys break up you just have to end it on good terms. Dry humping on the dance floor is a huge signal, go after her if you want her.
best of luck
-Myesha
message me if you want to talk=)
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