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writes:I need help again! My boyfriend and I broke up two months ago because he's afraid of commitment and he feels like we're not right for each other. I've told him twice now that we cannot contact each other anymore and he says that he respects my wishes. After I've told him this, I contacted him again only to ask for my stuff back that I left at his house and to ask him another question (which is a personal matter). Now, he emailed me to wish me a happy birthday and to see what my plans were to do. Also, he texted me the other night to see how my birthday was and when I didn't write back, he emailed me this morning. I just don't know what he expects from me. I know I shouldn't have contacted him but I wanted my stuff back and I needed to ask him a personal question but I feel like he's not respecting my wishes now. What do you think is going on with him and what should I do? Also, I still haven't received my things back yet.
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reader, mwest +, writes (25 June 2007):
mwest is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just wanted to clarify that my boyfriend broke up with me due to his commitment issues and he felt like we weren't right for each other.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (25 June 2007):
 Tell him that you don't want to talk about your birthday or anything with him. You just wanted to ask whatever the personal question was and get your stuff back. I would go round his place when I know him to be in to get my stuff back. Depending on the circumstances of the break up and stuff I may or may not go in his place and wait. I'd probably wait on the doorstep for him to get my stuff then leave. It sounds harsh but maybe it might help drive home the fact to him that its over and you don't want to talk to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): Men like to "have their cake and eat it too". Who's decision was it to call it quits? If the two of you are meant to be together then time will tell and you'll reconnect later. Distance makes the heart grow fonder.
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