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writes:I've posted on here sveral times bout this teacher hu i really fancy! I've been browsin the site and hav been looking into other ppl's posts with a similar problem as me. Anywayz, alot of the the advice seys dat it will pass over in time! I've been obsessed with this teacher for roughly 3 months and the pain is gettin greater - i'm jus concerned dat dis crush will never pass.
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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady +, writes (7 June 2009):
Oh dear. Well i'm afraid i can't tell you how long this will go on, but i can tell you that 3 months is a minimal period of time. Try 6 years. Now that's fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): 3 months is hardly anything.
It will, in the holidays, when you hardly see him, take part in clubs where they'll be boys and girls and then you'll make friends, and maybe even more than friends.
Whenever you think of him, make yourself think of something else, like how you're looking forward to that party, etc ...
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reader, Pinkbees09  +, writes (11 October 2007):
 3 months is nothing, I've liked this one teacher for 4 years straight! But I've obviously realized that I will never be with him, but I think I more of love him as a person and not so much as a crush. But anyways it will pass, or turn into what I have lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2007): dont worry i have had this feeling too.alot of students develope crushes on their teachers.it is so normal.and yes it will go away in some part of time.find things that you can dislike about him.it really works.trust me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007): Hi hun
This is a very worrying situation, Just think what your saying. When and i say when you get over this as you will and someone else will come along who you will like, say you got into a relationship and someone else tryed to break you up from your partner how would you feel, I no your thinking you dont care at this moment as your mind is so focused on this teacher, sweetheart think about what your hoping for and wishing for.. He is married he wont leave his wife, i really feel for you... Have you got a good friend to talk with? As ive seen this kind of obsession before and it will make you ill if it carrys on, thats if your not feeling very stressed already.. Please talk with someone you can trust, and believe me when i say this will pass.. PLEASE TAKE CARE LOTS OF LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (27 June 2007):
 Never mind under 16 is is illegal for a teacher to have a relationship with a student AT ALL!
The fact you are planning on sleeping with him just so you can have satisfaction proves that you are just a child still. If you truly love this bloke you would back off and let him have a happy marriage!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank youu all for the reasssurance - bt i reli dunt fink dis obsessive crush is gunna wear off! I love him sooo much n cannot stop staring at him! I've really got it bad - i cannot stand his wife n i am so desperate for him to divorce her! I kno it seems unlikely but der cud b a chance in the future of me gettin together with him, not necessarily marriage but like a strong long-lasting relationship! I'm quite certain tht he doesn't see me any different from other pupils but perhaps he could grow to start liking me :D I kno it's illegal for an under 16 to hav a relationship wiv a teacher...but i am turnin 16 dis year so maybe wen i've offically left school - i can see what happens from then! I hope his marriage doesn't last, mind you ders nothin to stop him two-timing her! I wouldn't complain, as long as i got the satisfaction of being able to have him in my arms...Fantasising, some will think but i'm bein dead serious - nothin is impossible! x
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (27 June 2007):
It will pass hunni. Although it does feel at the time like it never will. My best mate at school had a huge crush on a rather good looking male PE teacher. I was close to him in a student teacher way as I loved sports. It caused hugs problems between me and my mate and we fell out for a long time.
After the crush passed you came and apologised for being so stupid. Concentrate on studying and having fun with your friends :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2007): Well, I've had a crush on my teacher for roughly a year now, and i agree it is worse when they give you signals back...
It's just something you have to deal with I think, even if it's agonising... me and my teach flirt constantly but i guess we both know nothing can ever happen.
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reader, wheater +, writes (25 June 2007):
 Ive had a 'crush' for 2 years!
All because the teacher is giving me signals back.
However Ive been coping quite well u have just got to think of other girls but in ur case boys.
I know how it feels to want something to happen between u two. But dnt act on ur feelings even if u think the time is right.
It will pass, aslong as the teacher is not givin u signals back. try and stay clear of them then it will fade. Or think of something u hate about them that they do, like a habit n they will begin to really grind on u.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (25 June 2007):
 Let's talk about crushes here again.
We can have this feeling at any age.
However, over time most people learn how to deal with a crush.
Normally a crush lasts only several months, and then it fades.
You feel "the pain is gettin greater" - I guess it is a stage.
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reader, shortybabes +, writes (25 June 2007):
 Yes. eventually you will realise this is jus one of those highschool crushes teenagers have but it's very likely that soon you will stop fancying your teacher.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): Hi hun,
dont worry i had a crush on a teacher at school and it was simply because he was such a nice understanding guy, and when your young its hard to sort out your feelings from say fancying someone to generally caring about another person, My crush changed from WOW! he's cute to i no who i can go to for help he is understanding. Feelings are hard to work out sometimes hun other forms of caring take a role in your life and then you will understand. kindness on the inside is a very attractive part in a person as well as the outside.
so dont worry it will pass and you will meet more than one person in your life who you think is cute and fancy its all part of growing up, TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXX
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