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female
age
30-35,
*oogan
writes: 9 times out of 10 when I'm walking home I always see this lad and he always smiles at me. I never really noticed til the other week then I realised he has always smiled at me. The other day I was on a friend's profile and I found his, so i added him as a friend and we started chatting and whatnot, he asked me to go on webcam but did ask him if he was expecting to see anything if so it wasn't his day, but his reply was a nice one "no, I'm not that kind of a guy" Later that night I went round his and we watched a film, we kissed and it was heavenly lol. He made sure that I texted him as soon as I got home and made sure I was safe but then he ruined it all by saying "send us a sexy pic." Is he just trying to get in me knickers?
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reader, AskEve +, writes (25 June 2007):
Tell him plain and simply you don't DO sexy pics but you will send him one of you (smiling) if he still wants one. Don't drop your standards for anyone, least of all someone you've just recently met. You don't know him well enough yet, for all you know he could spread it around the net or around his friends, then you'll get labelled as "easy" which of course you aren't. Stand your ground on this one and DON'T give in to him no matter what excuse he gives you.
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reader, myp +, writes (25 June 2007):
yeah, for sure. But maybe hes a nice guy trying to get into your knickers. =) If you wanted i think you guys could still have a relationship, all this means is that hes a sexual person that definitely has the hots for you.
If your not comfortable with sending him a pic like that then dont, i think at the end of the day he'll still like you. He might even like you more because you didnt send him a pic. (weird guy logic)
best of luck
-Myesha
message me if you want to talk =)
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