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writes: i feel sad all the time but i do not know whats wrong with me or why i feel this way,i have no or little self confidence at the moment , i do not ever tell my mum or friends they just assume i am the happiest person in the world but i really am not. alot of the time i feel like crying and i do not now why i feel like crying. it makes no sense to me at all i do not feel i can let people in because they would not understand, i feel they would care or would not believe me, that they would laugh at me my mum tells me i am just so senistive that everything bothers me and that i can not stand hurting people i do not want to feel this way anymore!i am so fed up of feeling like a bad person because i have hurt other people emotionally without intending too i always hurt them , i hurt guys the ones that say i love you to me but i do not love them back it is getting so hard crying or feeling sad or the time is not something im accustomed to i used to feel so happy all the time, on top of the world like i could do anything now i just feel like going to bed or crawling in to a dark deep black hole where noone can find me.
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reader, Brandi +, writes (26 June 2007):
Hi, being sad all the time means your hormones are being crazy and you are deprested because of them. Give them some more time and then if the sadness does not go away go to the doctor.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): You're not a bad person because you don't love those boys back, it simply happens, have you heard of "can't command my heart?". There's a novel in which the girl doesn't love a boy and she's honest with him, he can't find anything to blame her for and he keeps a pure love in his heart as a corollary of his later work. That's an example of respecting the other's not sharing feelings. It's actually good when you can be still friends with an ex or a person who "doesn't return the feeling." Some say it's a quality. But I'm afraid this is one of the minor things that bother you. You do sound sensitive, but what else happened that made you feel so? Identify it and don't let it bring you down. Get more rest, and for no reason should you isolate yourself on the island "nobody will understand me." Wrong, they will. Maybe not now, or not how you imagine, but some will, now or later.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (25 June 2007):
You could be suffering with depression, or it could just be your hormones giving you the teenage blues. Why not talk how you feel through with your doctor who may be able to help. We all have a time in our life when we want to break down and cry beacuse the world feels like its ending. There is help out there though. You don't have to suffer alone.
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reader, Ask_HanBan +, writes (25 June 2007):
it sounds like depression hun
do u lak sleep?
feel tired and constant moodyness
find it hard to get out of bed in the morning
see a councellor and talk any issues through!!!
gd luk
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