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He said we had a connection--but now nothing. What does it mean?

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Question - (25 June 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 June 2007)
A female Canada age 30-35, *nonymous. writes:

I was in a relationship with this guy for 3 years. We broke up really badly--I left him for someone else. Yikes. Then we pretty much ignored each other for months.. until a party came around. He got really drunk and told me we have a "connection" and that I was his "first love" and was even kissing me hand and everything...

Then the next day I told him he was pretty much confessing his love (when he asked me what he said), and he said he didn't want a relationship with me and that "things happen for a reason". Now he's back to not talking to me... and I don't talk to him. What's going onnnn!?

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (25 June 2007):

AskEve agony auntThe answer is simple love... HE WAS DRUNK! Forget him and move on.

Eve

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A female reader, myp United States +, writes (25 June 2007):

myp agony aunthes attempting to get over you, and hes hurt by what you have done to him and doesnt want to be hurt further. When he got drunk he was telling you what he felt in his heart not in his mind. I think he might still love you, but he doesnt want to be with you because of the relationships history.

best of luck

-Myesha

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A female reader, ceoruby United States +, writes (25 June 2007):

ceoruby agony auntif you left this guy, you left him for a reason, please don't try to go back because it will never be good for you. obviously this guy still hasn't got over the fact that you left him to be with someone else, and you shouldn't forget this either.Let by-gons be by-gons.

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