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writes:A month ago I went out with this women and had a fantastic time. We both really liked each other. The first date went really well and she kept telling me what an exceptional time she was having at the end. She’s a beautiful women that gets a lot of attention and is used to guys chasing after her. I did not want to be another guy chasing after her.Some days after our first date we chatted on the phone. Our schedules were hectic and so when I asked her about an upcoming Saturday night she said she didn’t have any plans but she didn’t know if her friends were going to force her to go somewhere that night. I was determined to see her again and so I told her to never mind that and that we were going to go out that night. On the Saturday morning she called to tell me she forgot she had made plans that for that night and if we could reschedule.I went silent. I was disappointed. I saw myself on the back burner starting to get strung along. I was convinced that she did not have previous plans but that her friends had simply convinced her to go out and just see me some other time. I felt far from important but more like another guy she knew she could string along. I really liked her but out of respect for myself I couldn’t accept that. I knew she liked me but what felt right at the time was to stop things there and then. I brushed her off which disturbed her and I haven’t called her back.It’s been a month. I’m thinking about her. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI called to apologize. I wasn't able to reach her and so on the third evening I left my apology in her answering machine.
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reader, eddie +, writes (25 June 2007):
 Don't act like a child. she owes you nothing and only asked to reschedule. Don't forget, at that point you were just a new person in her life and you didn't have the rank you hoped for. You've probably damaged your chance but you won't know until you try again. She may think you're already a little controlling, and she'd be correct.
"our schedules were hectic, she didn't know if her friends were going to force her to go somewhere, I told her to never mind that we were going out" That's a little assertive.
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reader, gorgeousgirl  +, writes (25 June 2007):
 well call her... if thats what u reallly want..I was in a same situation with a guy...he was used to for girls being aftter him.. that I stop talkin to him.. and just moved on... cuz He just wanted one thing....But if u think u see a good thing going... call her... and see what happen...KIT... i want to kno what happen okK!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): Youre a pompous jackass, im sorry; its been a month, youre not getting back in there now. so she said she had plans instead of hurting your feelings, IF she was lying. she wasnt disrespecting you, what an over reaction! if shes so popular she probably has a new guy lined up by now who wont freak and brush her off cos she wanted a night out with her girlfriends. you didnt deserve to have her; learn from this you drama queen!!
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