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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't know if she likes me or is using me but I need to find a way to get a definite yes or no or a yes with a timescale like when she will be ready!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've liked this girl since August. We've met for lunch once and it was awkward. I let her know how I felt towards her before this. But then lately I have had to visit her work a lot and she has just smiled and talked very quietly to me. Then Saturday just gone, she needed to ... (362 words)

I can't imagine not wanting sex so I would imagine if I could just get her to want it more, we could both be happier!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6277 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm married over 10 years now and love my wife very much. Lately, however, I have been feeling like I'm getting a bit old and wanting more sex to compensate. I fear having a dull, brother/sister type marriage. I'm extremely sexual and could have sex with my wonderful wife 3 ... (567 words)

My 3 female fellow students want the 4 of us to go on holiday together but I don't think my girlfriend is too keen on the idea seeing as she wouldn't be going.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) age 41-50 - Hi! I ask to get some opinions. I study maths and have three female fellow students I used to learn with for the past two years. My girlfriend of just over two years studies history at the same university. She knows this friend. And all of those three female friends are in a ... (218 words)

He always hides little things from me from his ex and child and I wish he wouldn't.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Female from San Francisco. I have been married for 5 years. My husband was married before and has one child. He always hides little things from me from his ex and child or other things. everytime I comfront him he says that that life is over and he doesn't want me to be mad b... (74 words)

Why am I always attracted to guys much older than myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6374 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've always been attracted and have dated pretty much always older guys, far older than me. Like I'm 18 but the guys I date are around 30 of age. Why is that? Is there a reason why I'm attracted to older guys?... (48 words)

I am female and have hair growing out of my chest on both sides, is this normal???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) - dear cupid I am 16 under going into puberty. I seem to have a little concern, my chest seems to grow but on my right side of the chest has hair and the other side doesn't. Is this normal and what worries me more is will my left side grows hair as well. Thank you in advance... (73 words)

He seems to have time for everyone except me and his daughter.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am freaking inside... I have been talking to a man for almost 3 years. All this while, he has still been talking with his ex-fiance. He tells me he is torn between us both. He doesn't want a relationship. He doesn't want to hurt anyone. I just had his baby this month. W... (144 words)

Will I ever be any more than my neighbour's friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age - Next door neighbor - women and I have had a friendship/sexual relationship on and off for the past seven years. About 16 months ago she came to me and told me she loved me and wanted a relationship. At the time she was depressed and not happy with herself at all. I politely ... (268 words)

Is it wrong to want to cheat on my husband with a married man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

- I'm in a bit of bother! I have feelings for my friends husband, and he has feelings for me too (More sexually driven). We love our partners but have this urge for each other that is so so so strong. We dont see each other anymore but we still chat on msn. It's driving us... (119 words)

If there was a spark before, will there always be one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - Can people still be attracted to someone several years on? I ask this because when I was a teenager I became quite close to a male family friend. The family actually lived abroad but this boy came to stay at our house for a couple of weeks one summer. I remember the fir... (416 words)

We're going to have sex for the first time this weekend--how do I make it good for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I'm 25 and am dating a gorgeous girl who's 21. She's perfect for me and we've decided that we're ready to start sleeping together. This weekend we're gonna have sex for the first time but I'm really nervous because it's been a while for me and I don't want to mess ... (81 words)

I faked an orgasm to please him now I don't know if I should do it again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months (I'm 22, he's 25) and we started to have sex a month ago. I enjoy the sex but I haven't had an orgasm. He said last week that he would like it if I showed him when I was having one because he likes to know he pleases me when we have ... (100 words)

I still love him even thought he lied to me and hurt me so much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 14, I met a boy who lived near a friend of mine when it was her birthday. We didn't talk all night, but I think I fell in love straigt away, and luckily the feeling was mutual. After a couple of years however, in which we had lost our virginity to each other, and ... (358 words)

After sex for the first time, I feel a burning sensation downstairs..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i recently had sex for the first time.since then whenever i pee or masturbate it burns.what should i do?or is this something that always occurs?please help... (26 words)

When will I ever get rid of all that hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in my early twenties and was brought up in a very conservative culture. Sometime ago, I fell in love with someone I met via the internet. Only after we started talking, we realized we were distantly related. A day after two after all those online conversations, h... (801 words)

He makes me feel insecure about myself and picks out things I hate myself for.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - he makes me feel insecure about myself, he sometimes picks out the things i hate about myself. he knows about this and his way of talking is to involve his d*ck and think it makes it all better. i told him it wont fix the problems or what im feeling. seems to me he's getting ... (177 words)

I married him after 6 months only to feel secure - I feared that I wouldn't find anyone else. Now I'm so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Not Sure If I Should Stay With My Husband... My husband and I have been married for a little over 3 years now. We met at a stressful point in my life and he was a strong support for me. We only dated for about 6 months before getting married. Before him, I thought I'd neve... (155 words)

My husband and his brother's wife had an affair. I feel his brother needs to know, but I don't want him to hurt as I do. Children are involved - what should I do??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6174 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - I found out my husband had an affair with his brother's wife. I am now going through a divorce. Learning about the affair has almost destroyed me. His brother knows nothing about the affair. I know my soon-to-be ex-husband and his brother's wife are terrified about the ... (149 words)

My ex and I are seeing one another in a casual relationship and I kissed another guy! I feel guilty and confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) age 36-40 - I'm sooo confused!!! Me and This Lad went out for just over two years we broke up xmas 2005 but for the last 6 months have been casually seeing each other. I totally fell for him again and we do always tell each other we love each other, we do normal BF and GF things lyk pict... (247 words)

After four years, she's not interested in sex. When I bring it up, she accuses me of only wanting her for sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6326 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi Guys, I'm really hoping someone out their can help me as Im so damn confused. My girlfriend and I have been together nearly 4 years. My problem is that lately (over the past few months) she just doesn't seem interested in being intimite with me at all. We haven't made lov... (180 words)

I'm kind of embarrassed to ask, but how do I give him a hand job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so I've been dating this guy for several months, and he and I definately have very strong feelings fro each other. We were friends long before we were dating, so we know each other pretty well. Lately, we've been getting more...passionate, I guess. Neither of us are ready ... (91 words)

When I told her I liked her, she said she didn't want to lose me as a mate! How can I convince her to give us a try?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - I told a girl I like her and then we became close. But now if I say can we get together, she says she doesn't want it because she doesn't want to lose a good mate. How can I get her to see I'll always be there for her as a mate? And how can I get her to see that she should give ... (68 words)

I love my boyfriend, but I think he's trying to manipulate me into having sex! I want to wait. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months, we haven't had sex yet but we've been close to so many times, I really love him and all but sometimes he acts like it is going to be the end of the world if we don't do it. I sometimes feel like he is manipulating me, but ... (81 words)

How do I come up with a pet name for my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (?) - So I need help concerning my boyfriend. He has a lot of "pet names" I guess you'd call it for me and I'd really like some for him but I can't think of any. I was wondering if you could use "babe" for a guy too... umm, any help would be great--names, ideas, etc. thanks in ... (57 words)

I want my friend, but she has a girlfriend--what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi again, I recently posted a question title: "I got her to kiss me and now I don't know what to do". (please note I didn't force her to--she wanted me to lol). Basically, I really like my friend, and have the feeling she does me. I had some great advice from my last que... (171 words)

I'm just about to turn 17 - is it possible that I'll have another growth spurt?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 turning 17 in august. I have a concern about my height. I'm just over 5ft 10 and wonder if I'll grow anymore, maybe to 6ft. The reason being is that there are some of my friends that are quite tall and I get a bit intimiated and envy that. What do you reckon, ... (72 words)

He said he wants the space to be excited to see me again--should I worry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age - My b/f and I are in our 50's. We met a couple of months ago. We hit it off like a rocket. We felt that we have known each other for awhile, that is how comfortable we were and still is. He calls me several times a day. Not long ago he told me that he does not understand it ... (676 words)

My boyfriend hates that I'm still affectionate with the father of my child--what can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6202 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I feel that my boyfriend of almost a year whom I love very much is trying to control me! I have a son from a previous BF and for the sake of my son he and I are friends. We are Hispanic and have a very close relationship so we kiss on the cheek and hug hello and goodbye when he ... (161 words)

His mother won't approve of our two year relationship--should I end it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age - I am a 43 yr old Englishwoman. My boyfriend is 24 and from an Eastern European country. We work together and have lived together for over 2 yrs. We are totally in love but his mother doesn't approve of our relationship. Our problem (his mother) only becomes an issue fo... (142 words)

How do I prepare to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4617 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have been going out with this guy now for about 2 years and I am 16 and he is 26.. I know the age right. Well he has deffently had sex. And I have but it was always really quick in and out. So I am worried that I might bleed while I have sex with him for the first time. ... (134 words)

I'm 99.9% sure my brother's wife has a thing for one of our friends. Should I confront her while my brother is in basic training??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 41-50 - My brother is in Basic Training for the Army. Before he left, his wife and him were joined together at the hip. Now I've been keeping an eye on her while hes gone. I'm like 99.9% sure shes got a thing for one of our friends, but I don't know what to say to her. Its obvious ... (178 words)

Can the sperm just slide back out so that you cant get pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

- If you have sex and the guy comes inside you and you sit up afterwards and there is a wet patch from you does that mean the sperm have come out of you and you wont get pregnant... (38 words)

I havent seen him in a week and am feeling insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so i like a boy, he had a gf of like nine months, but she treated him horribly. We held hands cuddled you know the usual, but he still dated her. Sunday night he broke up with her, I know its gunna bother him, but i cant seem to understand why he hasn't been around. I ... (123 words)

Guys dont hold my interest for long, I get bored with them!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Why do i always want what i cant have? Whenever i have had a bf, i always get bored of them easily and see their faults and become interested in someone else. What can i do to overcome this?? ... (39 words)

I am jealous of how happy my ex and my friend are together!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya. I recently decided to end it with my bf but now he is going out with a close friend of mine. I am finding it really hard to see them together. We are in the same group of friends which makes it even more difficult. Whenever i think about them being together it makes me ... (147 words)

The test was negative, could she be pregnant anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6330 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - ahmmm.. the thing is, i ejaculated inside my girlfriend. She has a irregular mens cycle, but its day 40 already and I am getting worried. I made her take a pregnancy test and it came out negative and our last sex was like a week ago.. whats wrong? ... (48 words)

Does DearCupid have a leftist, liberal bias?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6270 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - hello everyone, over the past month i have seen your site. it is a great site for exploring relationship, sexual or confidence problems. however, i have been skeptical. I have one critism that might be apparent. getting a little off topic, let me say that i have a lot of ... (228 words)

I am a workaholic with no life, and I am lonely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 24, single, have worked hard and got a good position in an "ok" company, but I feel totally unfulfilled and to be honest, lonely. I split from my last main partner 2 years ago and have been on dates but nothing has lasted or made me "fall in love". I just feel completely ... (151 words)

He will make my life hell if I break up with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Everyone, was wondering if someone could help me as i don't know what to do. Been with my bf for about 7 months, he became controlling and possessive to which we/he is/are getting help for. Over the weekend we had a really big argument which involved my family but it wa... (343 words)

The guy I used to chat online with is now harassing me! He follows me to any website I visit and slanders me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, HELP! My life is a bit of insanity right now. Currently, I am in a rocky long term relationship. On top of that I thought I had liked someone else. Well, I started talking to this other person via the net and realized that I don’t really like him at all. I j... (231 words)

He's giving me mixed signals - he's not affectionate anymore but said he could fall in love with me! Do I wait to see if he makes up his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need a guys point of view on this...what does he mean? Back in December a guy I had met through friends asked me if I wanted to start a band, as he plays guitar and I sing and am learning guitar. It was just an acoustic thing to play locally. We started practicing a l... (596 words)

I always inititate sex with my husband and he never does. When I try to talk about it, he refuses! I feel so alone.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice. I dont mention this to my friends because people think we have the perfect relationship and it is, well almost.... I have been with my partner for two years, he is my dream man, when we first met and still to this day there is huge chemistry between us, we ... (623 words)

Things with my bf of 7 months are going downhill quickly. We're on break now, but I'm not sure what to do with it anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and we've had our fair share of arguments but we're very much in love, up until recently. We'd been pretty much living together until a couple of weeks ago when I decided to move home because of problems with his co-tenant and also... (158 words)

I'm worried that the pill will cause me to gain weight - I have a knee injury and can't exercise!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been having severe break-outs on my face (acne/pimples) for the last 6 months. They are also very painful. I never had any problems with acne before. I also noticed that my periods have not been regular in the last 6 months. And very scanty when they happened. I met a do... (240 words)

Broke up with him because the sex was too painful... should I give him another chance?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I broke it off with my boyfriend because sex with him was extremely painful. It was my first time and i felt he was not as gentle as i would have liked him to be. We never even kissed for he said he hates kissing and there was no fore play. what got me so upset was that i... (161 words)

I can't stop thinking about this other guy! How can I split with my husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi, recently i've been having feelings for an ex, we have spent a bit of time together, problem is he has a girlfriend and i am married. I have been unhappy with my husband for quite a while now, long before this other guy came on the scene again. I can't stop thinking ab... (97 words)

My bf and his parents know that I'm 9 weeks pregnant, but how do I tell MY parents??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I need help breaking the news..... adive and tips I'm 9 weeks pregnant and going through a very tough pregnancy i developed hypertension and this could be come critical for me and the baby.I have told my bf about everything and the only other person that know's i'm pregn... (111 words)

Is the build up to sex supposed to get "comfortable" rather than exciting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Im 19 and i was just wondering if its common for people of all ages to find the build up to sex 'comfortable' rather than excitting and 'film like'?... (29 words)

Our relationship is an endless cycle: argue, split up and get back together. How do we stay together w/out breaking up??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend (ex for the time being) keep on splitting up and getting back together. when we split up we both seem its the best thing to do and say horrible things to each other and are glad its over, but then a week later, maybe less we end up talking and get back ... (117 words)

We're considering marriage, am I right to let myself be bothered by his kids from a previous marriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - So, my boyfriend (10 years older) has two kids from when he knocked up his girlfriend (which he married) in highschool. They are now divorced, and she doesn't let him see them anymore but he still wants to send money and support them. We are considering marriage but... ... (132 words)

I can't let go and will not accept that he's left me. How do I get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - Just to recap on my earlier questions: I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do? everytime i think i will be okay and have left this man that hurt me alone i see something that gets me back where i started.Since ... (250 words)

We get on like a house on fire theres a spark missing when it comes to sex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

- Hi just a quick one. Ive recently started seeing one of my ex's again and although we get on like a house on fire theres a spark missing when it comes to sex. We slept together before we broke up (nearly 2 years ago) but haven't this time round sex was never very good (he... (197 words)

I'm leaving town so I won't need to see them together. Am I doing the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - for the past few weeks i have been heart broken because i was dumped by a man who has decided to go back to the woman he got pregnant because he says it is the right thing to do because he wants his child to grow up with a mom and dad and not that he doesnt love me at all. ... (158 words)

Is it true that women don't like sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5250 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) age 41-50 - I carry this predisposition about women that they don't like men, sex and any kind of male intimacy. May be based on my mom's attitude. Also i find it inadequate if the women i am having sex with doesn't like it or has a negative impression about it in her mind. I am sort of ... (75 words)

Jealous of my 'friend with benefits''' new boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6381 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - i feel like in a 3rd wheel. my friends with benifits has a boyfriend and at 1st i was cool with that. she knows i love her and she says she loves me too.i want to be more than just friends w/benifits but she wont dump her boyfriend. i know i cant make her but its just so hard ... (148 words)

We have a great connection but he says he doesn't want to settle

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 51-59 - In 2004, I met the most handsome man while still in college. We were both older students (in our thirties)who felt that fate had brought us together. We dated for a couple of months, but broke up before we graduated. We lost touch with each other because he is in the Air Force, ... (236 words)

She says she's confused, while I'm just hurting

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend were dating for almost three months, and then we took a break. i still love her very much and really wish to go back out with her. she still loves me too and she even told me that she still loves me, the only problem is she's confused, she said sometimes ... (215 words)

I get angry just looking at him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - why am i so angry at him everyday? we've been together for a year and some change now. and we have our arguments and sometimes when i look at him i get mad. he has this thing even if i ask he will take off without me and leave me at his house for couple of hours. im moving in ... (106 words)

He wants to bring another woman into our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - he's asked me to add another women and have a 3some but when i asked him "would he ask for it again?" he said why not. we have our problems here and there. but he's mine. he's been mine for a full year and some. he tells me what about his needs? i tell him they dont matter when ... (106 words)

How can I make him trust me so we can have a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupids I have a very frustrating relationship with my current "friend with benefits" I like this man, and want a real relationship with him, however he tells me that he won't let anyone in and won't trust anyone because he's been hurt too many times. I respect this and... (350 words)

My ex says she misses me and I think I feel the same but I have a new love interest

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex and I had a rough going of separate ways. After a month she has contacted me and told me that she misses me. I am currently seeing another woman... although not my girlfriend, we have went on a few dates. My ex has quite the past in drugs, and although not a s... (195 words)

Can I get in trouble for kissing her....?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6387 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I posted a similar thread previously... I am seeing a girl a year and a half younger than me. She isnt 18 yet. Can her parents press charges on me for kissing her?... (38 words)

He's worried about the age difference, should I just end it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - i am 16 turning 17 and i met a guy at a party. he is 21 turning 22 in 4 months. we have gone out a few times and i am beggininng to like him alot but i know he is freaked out about the age difference. sometimes he says it doesnt matter but other times he makes it known that hes ... (118 words)

He makes sexual demands all the time and I can't always be bothered

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - i am 31 and my fiance is 46. he wants oral sex all the time and sometimes i just don't feel like doing it. i love him and want this relationship to work but he is constantly making a big issue that i don't satisfy him the way he wants me to. he also wants to have anal sex alot, ... (83 words)

We know there will be problems but we just fell in love

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 17 years old, and I just started a relationship with a man who is 26. We both knew that we probably should not have, but we fell in love. I need help but I'm not even quite sure what I'm asking. What sort of problems does this relationship bring up? What can I do? ... (57 words)

I can't decided if I should move in with him or not

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is married and we have been dating for 9 months now. He didnt have a job in the beging he always asked me for money. He is now working wont get divorced and he wants me to move in with him. He is a wonderful guy i love him. I just dont know if i should move in or ... (62 words)

My fiance gets angry that I don't perform oral sex well enough

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance is constantly complaining that i am not satisfying him sexually. he gets really angry that when i perform oral sex on him, i don't do it to his liking. he says that i do not satisfy him the way he satisfies me, and i am selfish. could you please help me. i want this ... (59 words)

How can I help my old friend out of the rut she's in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - hello everyone i have a problem with my best friend. you see weve been friends since 7th grade now weve been outta high school for a year and all but she is i guess going through this rough patch and i dont know how to deal or help her. you see as most kids probably we dated ... (469 words)

I have a crush on my female teacher

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26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 16 year old girl and I have a crush on my teacher. That would be fine if it was a man, but it isn't. She's a very hot woman I just have to be around. I need help to get her out of my mind. What can I do? If my parents found out they'd shoot me. I can't like another ... (67 words)

I ended the relationship but it still hurts

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6388 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

- I am needing some words of support here. I just ended a relationship and have decided that no contact is the way to go. It is early days after the break up and I am still tempted to send an email or call. I have a challenging career and good friends but am still feeling that ... (78 words)

Could this older guy like me and just be shy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6389 days ago

26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 yrs old and have been working w/ my co-worker who is 40 yrs old for the past year. In this year we have gotten to know each other better and we often go out with our boss and his girlfriend -a.k.a also our friend as a group. The first time we went out as a group he was ... (129 words)

Should I let this row just be our break up, or should I patch things up even if it's only temporary?

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26 June 2007 (M)

age - Should I let this row become a break-up? We are both in our 40s, have gone through our separate divorces since knowing each other 4 years ago and we are looking to move together. The problem is that we live 70 miles apart and because of our respective children, we have not ... (298 words)

I want to wait until she is old enough to date

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - Following up from my previous question whereby I asked for advice concerning the 4 and a half year gap (14/19)between myself and the girl I met I just want to thank everyone for reassuring me about how I am no 'monster' as I put it. Going on the advice given that suggested a... (243 words)

He found out he has leukemia and the stress caused me to lose our baby

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26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i recently found this GREAT guy and he's really sensetive and handsome so after a few dates we finaly had sex and i pregnant and were both happy so were gonna get married in a few years when we both have more money not long away so we seemed really happy . anyways he... (108 words)

I want to kiss but not tell!

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26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi please help. I want to kiss my new bf so so so bad but how do i let him know with out telling him. PLEASE HELP!... (27 words)

I suspect he is cheating and need to know how to confront him.

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26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im currently in my 4th year with my partner and lately he has been off with me,now i know why because he carries a photo of an unknown female around with him,i believe he has daily contact with her and slept with her,how do i confront him?... (47 words)

I want to get married and he doesnt. I am afraid we may have come to our fork in the road.

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26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - My man and I have been together for six years. We have lived together for three. We have talked about marraige before and recently we've had serious talks about it. He doesn't know what he wants. He has said he doesn't really want to get married, and I told him that I do wan... (135 words)

I'm not sure where my relationship is going

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26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - im not sure wat to do at the moment, ive been casually with this guy for about 9 months now and not sure where its going. i no many of ye out there no how im feeling but for some reason i think this time may be different. we get on well and everything is great when we are ... (141 words)

I am attracted to my husbands brother!

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26 June 2007 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel guilty because lately I've been having fantasies with my husband's brother!!! I'm glad to know that I finally found someone that could listen to me and give good advice on this that I been keeping to myself. I've been happily married for over two years to an excellent ... (338 words)

I cheated on my girlfriend and lost my virginity to another girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6324 days ago

26 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my girlfriend for about 6 months. I'm in love with her(even though I haven't told her yet) and I ended up cheating on her with someone else. On top of that I was a virgin before it happened. The girl I was with was a friend of mine, we were hanging out as usual ... (163 words)

Girls tell me he cheats. Is it just cause they want him for themselves or is he really cheating?

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26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend to death but girls tell me he's cheating. Most of the ones who tell me want him for their self. When I ask him he swears he's not, but sometimes I dont see him for like days. Then he comes back and tells me he stayed with one of his friends and that he ... (108 words)

Rememberance

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26 June 2007 (M)

age 36-40 - In remembrance- For one time, I thought it might be ok to skip a question and just give condolences to someone recently past. WWE wrestler Chris Benoit, and his family were all found dead in the their Atlanta, Georgia home. Chris Benoit was a true inspiration to us all, and h... (79 words)

Really we are just roommates. Is it worth hanging on to?

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26 June 2007 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and I work different hours. He works night and I work day. For the first 2 years of our relationship it worked out fine, but the past two year have been a battle for me. We live together and spend a total of about 29 hours a week together. When I say together, I ... (166 words)

Is it safe to have unprotected sex during your period?

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26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - this is so stupid but I have been having protected sex for months now but i wondered if you can have unprotected sex during your period?... (26 words)

He ejaculated on the outside of me. Can I still get pregnant?

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26 June 2007 (F)

age 30-35 - I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend the other night, and although he didn't ejaculate inside of me...he did on the outside of my vagina. Immediately I took the sheet and wiped all of it off. Is it possible for me to get pregnant anyway? Any help would be much appreciated! ... (51 words)