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I struggle to keep my erection during sex, but it comes back when I stop--help?

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Question - (25 June 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 April 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My penis starts losing it's erection while i'm having sex, and if I pull out it starts erecting again. Any idea why it loses it's erection?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2008):

i do not get erection during sex,what should i do..what is the explanation for this/or i should see a doctor to consult this kind of problem?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2007):

Your mind will be playing a big role in this. To most people this happen after ejaculation - the climax, but if in your mind pentration is the climax, then the job is done and the penis will start relaxing. A willing partner could help you to overcome this by helping you to keep interested by turning you on, otherwise you will have to do all the hard work by exciting yourself.

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A female reader, Brandi United States +, writes (26 June 2007):

Brandi agony auntI do not know why it does that but instead og intercourse why do you not try oral sex that might help alot.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (26 June 2007):

Danielepew agony auntFrank said it all, man.

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A male reader, Frank B Kermit Canada +, writes (25 June 2007):

Frank B Kermit agony auntMy guess is that it is not a physical thing. There is something going on when you are alone, that is helping you maintain, which does not happen when you are with your partner.

Most likely, you may be feeling nervous, and ill-at-ease. You are probably more relaxed when you are with a partner. Performance anxiety?

What is going through your mind when you are with your partner that is not happening when you are alone? If it is fear or nervousness, then elimating that will help you.

-FBK

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