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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: my love life is such a puddle at the moment so is my life in genereal im in sixthform and at the start of the year i was having an absolute blast i loved every minute of it i was so popular everyone wanted to be my friend i had all the guys falling at my feet all asking to be my boyfriend but as time progressed i got a boyfriend then he dumped me a month later i moved on but the guy who was always there for me who fancied me too became so distant from me afterwards i did not think much of it till know. now i really like him but he told my brother he only likes me as a friend the thing is i really adore him but he only sees me as a friend now which is tediously ironic to add to that all my guy mates either end up fancying me or become distant i do not know what to do anymore!i can not take it every guy i am ever friends with i end up hurting them. my best friend i have known throughout my whole life is depressed because of me and recently my other best mate confessed he loved me i do not know what to do anymore to add to that most gurls i know tend to be really horrible to me because i am very affectionate with lots of guys , because i am always surrounded by guy mates. i really like this guy i just can not stand that he doesnt like me anymore its so werid what do i do?x help appreciated.
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (25 June 2007):
This guy has obviously moved on from you because you were with the other lad. If he wants to be mates then be just that. You won't end up hurting if you be a loyal friend to him. All you can do is move on to.... or hold on and hope he realises that he still likes you. Don't hold on for too long though.
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