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writes:A few nights ago my girlfriend said our relationship was over and she needed a break and space. The next morning she called and spoke to me as if nothing happened. She then called me through-out the weekend. Is this normal behaviour?
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reader, Cateyes  +, writes (25 June 2007):
 Sometimes people say things out of frustration. Did you just have an arguement? Then, there is the....ok, I didn't mean what I said, so I will call him and everything will go back to "normal". My thoughts...you need to talk to her about what just happened. What you don't want is for that to happen all the time for any little reason. How are you suppossed to know what just took place and was it for real, right? There has to be a reason of "why" this happened and only you know what it is. To me, there's two ways of looking at this...one, she still loves you and really doesn't want to let go...two, it's just a game of back and forth. The only way to really know the answer is of what lead up to this and why. Think about what happened and most importantly, talk to her as well so both of you can be on the same page. Good Luck.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 June 2007): Hi hun,
she may just be going through a little confussing time in her head, does she get like this often or is this the first time love, Does she suffer with P.M.T... Im just going through the reasons that may behind this. You have'nt said how long you have been together, if you didnt see her over the weekend and she phoned you she obviously wants you around and sometimes us girls get upset for no apparent reason she may be feeling down and not want you to see it..If this is not normal behaviour see how things go hun if this is said often then there is more of a problem, either way sit her down and have a chat to make sure your minds at rest and you no where you stand and also just to make sure she is ok... hope i helped a little TAKE CARE LOVE MANDY XXXX
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