A
female
age
51-59,
*aanu
writes: Hi friendsI am married and after my 1st child born, i love to someone in my office in first sight love. Till now I am in love with him (means 12 years now) I love him so much and he also love me too. I don't know why I do not have any kind of feelings with my husband. I want to be with my lover only but that is impossible. I am in Canada and he is in India. After every six months I am coming to India for him only but we donot have any place to meet together. He is also married and working. Now a days I am in India for him only but he is not having time to meet me, I am so depressed. sometime i am thinking that I should look for another guy but I cannot forget his feeling, I love his lips, eyes, sexy voice and he is very handsome. My problem is that I want to spend most of the time with him but he do not time for me, we can say he is helpless. please suggest me to what to do.thanks
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reader, DV1 +, writes (25 June 2007):
It sounds like you need to divorce your husband. You both are being very selfish by not considering your respective spouses.
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reader, nologo +, writes (25 June 2007):
Something is omitted in this story.
Why do you stay with your husband?
You say: "I do not have any kind of feelings with my husband".
"I want to be with my lover only but that is impossible" - ?!
Probably you need counseling - it's a result of another issue.
As to the person not having time for you, it sounds an excuse.
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