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Friends doesn't seem like enough...do I like him more than I thought??

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Question - (6 December 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2007)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have a male friend who told me last year that he liked me. It came completely out of the blue and i wasn't really sure how i felt so i spent some more time with him.

The more i got to know him the more i liked him and we get on really well. He didn't push things with me and i was always honest with him and nothing else happened as i decided i didn't feel physically attracted to him. We have stayed friends and still talk but i feel like its not enough. I don't know whether its because i like him more than i thought? I'm really confused.

If i don't think i fancy him could i still want something more? We are so compatible in terms of humour, personality etc. I just don't know what i want. Does anyone have any ideas?...i am confused!

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A female reader, dont_worry United States +, writes (7 December 2007):

dont_worry agony auntGive him a try (:

you are not losing anything

instead you are gaining something beautiful

yeaah yeah maybe you are not physically attracted to him

but you said being just friends is not enough

maybe theres something ?

let yourself be happy and in love

good luck

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A female reader, bqagirl2692 United States +, writes (6 December 2007):

bqagirl2692 agony auntGive him a chance on being in a relationship with you. Tel him you just want to try having a relationship with him and see how things go. Seems to me that if being his friend isnt enough then maybe moving on to the next step just might be it. You'll never know what you want until you try new things and compare from what your use to and what is new to you. Give it a try.

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