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writes:i don't know what's wrong with me...somedays i feel happy and carefree as if nothing can ever go wrong and then other days i feel sad and lonely like there's somthing missing in my life...something important and i just don't know what it is. then there are somedays that one minute i'm laughing and having fun and the next minute i'm in tears and can hardly breathe. i have had a lot happen to me over the past year and i just don't know what to do. i was molested twice by my auntie's husband and my x-boyfriend, which i still have nightmares about till this day...then my brother, godbrother, two of my cousins, my boyfriend, and my sister-in-law all left to join the military and i really miss them. now every morning my dad yells and yells not caring if it ruins my morning and brings me to tears everytime he does. it's like if he is not yelling he's eating or sleeping and if he'snot eating and sleeping he's yelling and telling us what to do...is this too much for a 17 year old girl to handle or what? my dad loves me ilnow that for a fact but sometimes he doesn't notice what he's doing or saying. i just don't know what's wrong with me....help....do you know what's wrong?
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reader, taz_in_2001  +, writes (6 December 2007):
I think you are going through a case of depression and would go explain things to the doctors, in the case of your dad I think he is going through some issues of his own and needs to see a doctor also
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reader, seph  +, writes (6 December 2007):
It does sound like too much for a young girl to handle! There are some serious issues there girl. I feel sorry about your situation
I would think carefully about seeing a counselor. Talking to someone, especially a professional will help. Try the school counselor if there is no one else.
You're old enough to move out if your relationship with your dad is really bad. Sometimes things improve when you leave home.
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (6 December 2007):
 I think you need to sit with your dad and explain to him how he makes you feel.
Im assuming you havnt had any sort of help with the abuse. Try some councelling.
Talking about things can help a lot.
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