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I don't like the way things are going.

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Question - (6 December 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 December 2007)
A male United States age 36-40, *ivek verma writes:

Hi!!

As my name would suggest I am an Indian guy in the US, Im 22 years old, virgin, and with no real contact with girls thru-ought my life so far, so sometimes, I am really pissed off with this, and dont know how to deal with it, I think I am quite good looking, but I dont know wats wrong here?

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A male reader, vivek verma United States +, writes (10 December 2007):

vivek verma is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I am hopeless.

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A female reader, rockelle United States +, writes (7 December 2007):

rockelle agony auntIs there any girl in particular that you like? Maybe you should try asking her out. Hang out with friends, join a club at school to meet new people and eventually you will meet someone. You have to open yourself up a bit, let the women know you are interested and ask them out. It is not as hard as it sounds.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007):

That would be a crazy thing to do, your still young. I think you just need to make a point of being available to girls. Is there anyone in particular that you like?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007):

Now, without getting into a religious debate I think that there is nothing wrong with you but people tend to think that Indian males are unavailable to date. Certainly in England when I was dating, many of the Indian lads were already 'sold' and had arranged marriages on the horrizon, to my friends and I this would mean that they were unavailable.

Perhaps we miss read this and actually even when marriage is imminent, Indian men still like to date while they can?

I know not all Indians strictly follow traditional guidelines and perhaps you are one of these, however how is anyone to know who is available and who is not without making a fool of themselves?

Either way like I said, you are probably very attractive but what signals do you give out to say that you are up for some action in your life. Im sure with a bit of confidence and perhaps you taking the lead in asking the girls out, that you life will soon be more forefilled.

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A male reader, vivek verma United States +, writes (7 December 2007):

vivek verma is verified as being by the original poster of the question

sometimes I think if I should call in a prostitute....

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