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*ivek verma
writes: Hi!!As my name would suggest I am an Indian guy in the US, Im 22 years old, virgin, and with no real contact with girls thru-ought my life so far, so sometimes, I am really pissed off with this, and dont know how to deal with it, I think I am quite good looking, but I dont know wats wrong here? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, vivek verma +, writes (10 December 2007):
vivek verma is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI am hopeless.
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reader, rockelle +, writes (7 December 2007):
Is there any girl in particular that you like? Maybe you should try asking her out. Hang out with friends, join a club at school to meet new people and eventually you will meet someone. You have to open yourself up a bit, let the women know you are interested and ask them out. It is not as hard as it sounds.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): That would be a crazy thing to do, your still young. I think you just need to make a point of being available to girls. Is there anyone in particular that you like?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): Now, without getting into a religious debate I think that there is nothing wrong with you but people tend to think that Indian males are unavailable to date. Certainly in England when I was dating, many of the Indian lads were already 'sold' and had arranged marriages on the horrizon, to my friends and I this would mean that they were unavailable.
Perhaps we miss read this and actually even when marriage is imminent, Indian men still like to date while they can?
I know not all Indians strictly follow traditional guidelines and perhaps you are one of these, however how is anyone to know who is available and who is not without making a fool of themselves?
Either way like I said, you are probably very attractive but what signals do you give out to say that you are up for some action in your life. Im sure with a bit of confidence and perhaps you taking the lead in asking the girls out, that you life will soon be more forefilled.
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reader, vivek verma +, writes (7 December 2007):
vivek verma is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsometimes I think if I should call in a prostitute....
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