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reader, maggie1987  +, writes (6 December 2007):
 every one likes different things in a relationship. the three most important things are love respect and honesty. but also you need your partner to be a bit spontaneous and be able to have a laugh. everyone has ups and downs in a relationship thats just the way it is but if your meant to be then youll always overcome these things life throws at you as long as you have love honesty and respect for each other thats the most important thing youll need and be sure to go a long way with each other
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 December 2007):
 I want someone who can be my best friend AND a great boyfriend. I want someone who can make me laugh and smile, who kisses me sweetly and who hugs me tightly. I want someone who I can have fun with in the bedroom - someone who I can make love to and who I can have rough and tumble fun with.
I want someone who is honest, who is loyal, who I trust. I want someone spontaneous, who likes surprises. I like someone who is REAL with ambition.
In my relationship I need to know that I can rely on my man to be on my side, but if I'm completely wrong he can be honest with me. I need complete support and I intend to return the favor.
I want to share memories and to make memories. I want my mate share my interests, but still be different from me. for example me and my man - I'm into theater, he's an artist. We're both creative, but not identical.
Okay, I'm blathering on. I also need someone who can be patient with me since I talk a lot.
I hope you find that special someone,
xxIndia
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007): At different points in my life I have wanted different things. Like 5 years ago all I cared about was a guy who was really educated, comes from a good family, very ambitious, responsible and successful, stuff like that. Boring but practical right?
Then 3 years ago, I stopped caring about education and what kind of family he came from and started really liking guys who were a little crazy, musicians or rock stars, and who I felt a strong connection with despite his financial situation. The kind of guy who would run away and elope with me in vegas.
Now I am confused as to what I want. I kind of want a balance between both. My last boyfriend was the type of guy who would take me out for tapas every night and we would drink wine and talk and talk and talk. So far he has been my favorite boyfriend. God I just liked him alot. He was the type of guy who would buy me anything I wanted and like a husband. I had never had that before. He was 9 years older than me.
I do think that when the right guy comes along you just know it. You may not know how to explain what you want or what you are looking for but when he comes, you just know it.
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reader, KEVSGIRL +, writes (6 December 2007):
 In a relationship...I look for/want honesty,loyalty,love. I want everything that my sorry ex didnt give me!!! And now my current boyfriend gives me all of that (loyalty and love)but (honesty), as for as Im concerned, he's always honest with me.
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (6 December 2007):
 Hmmm. Well my relationship is great so i have found everything i need. My husband knows me and is my best friend. I wantsed soem one that supports me but still lets me be independant. Understands me and is easy to talk to.
Shares some of the same things i like and best of all loves me and everything about me because of who i am and not what he thinks he can make me into.
So what do i look fo, simple my husband lol.
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reader, peaches83 +, writes (6 December 2007):
Hmmm. Well my relationship is great so i have found everything i need. My husband knows me and is my best friend. I wantsed soem one that supports me but still lets me be independant. Understands me and is easy to talk to.
Shares some of the same things i like and best of all loves me and everything about me because of who i am and not what he thinks he can make me into.
So what do i look fo, simple my husband lol.
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