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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes: I have had three dates with a guy the dates were fun nice and thoughtful, he asked me out again. The problem is he hasn't tried to kiss me yet. I am fairly new to the dating thing(divorced with in the past year)I have dated other guys and it has never taken any of them long to try. Am I just used to jerks? or is it strange that he hasn't tried? Reply to this Question
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reader, Mr59  +, writes (6 December 2007):
 If this guy your seeing is really thoughtfull and is really enjoying your company,he may not want to ruin it all by rushing in for a kiss,he may just want to wait untill he feels that your ready to be kissed,without rushing, if you are just give him a hint, I`m sure he`ll pick up on it.
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (6 December 2007):
 I don't think it is strange at all. And maybe you are right. Guys can also be shy / anxious, so just give him time.
The fact that he is continuing to ask you out on other dates, does show he is interested, so be content with that for now. If maybe after the 6th or 7th date he has not tried to kiss you, i would say GET RIGHT in there and kiss him. Then see what happens.
Good luck.
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