A
female
age
30-35,
*nonyous
writes:hi. i like my flatmate at uni.We had a lot of fun, but recently h found a note under my mattress saying that i liked him. He was taken aback and shocked and so i lied and said that i wrote the note three months ago and that i didn't like him anymore. However, i still know that he knows that i still like him because i was not very convincing and hes not an idiot. Since then, he has been acting normal arond me all the time and has not backed off. I don't know what this means. Also, a couple of days ago he realised that the note as written on the back of my nectar card envlope and he said:'oh, by the way, you know that note you wrote and how you said it was 3 months ago, well....it was written on the back of your nectar card envelpe and when did you get your nectar card...not even a month ago'.So now h knows that i definatley like him, but he still is relatively normal and has not backed off. Why not??? Also, he keeps on bringing it up over and over agin...like he will just drop it in conversation.eg:'oh i think this piece of paper is big enough for you to write a note on'or'are you gonna write a note about this too'.Furthermore, yesterday he came into my room at 3am to use my internet as his was not working and he tried to tell me that he was always nicer to me than the rest of the people in the flat and also hen i said that he was horrible to me, he said that he wasn't that horrible compared to the other people. Then, before he left, he said, as a joke:'oh, i don;t even know if i should be in here...am i like fulfillung some of your pervert fantasies'what does this mean.i'm really confused. Does he like me or not?? please help!!!!
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reader, anonyous +, writes (8 December 2007):
anonyous is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey ppl/ thanks for the advice, but i'm still so confused. I mean, this guy canbe the nocest person in the orld one minute, and, then the next, he can be so mean to me. I mean, this is normal behaviour for him co this is how he use to behave before he found the note, so is he just acting this way coz he really dislikes me or coz he thinks that that is what attractedme to him because he knows that he can get away with it with me. Also, he keeps on bringing up the note, for example
we were both in the kitchen with my other male flatmate, tom, and the guy i like said, as a joke (as i was up til quite late yesterday night):
'the reason u stay awake at night it so u can secretly listen into my room or do u stare at a picture of tom all night...
and i said 'no'
then he said
'or is it a picture of me??'
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007): He DEFINITELY likes you girl. I have no doubt in my mind.
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reader, Richard_EMids +, writes (6 December 2007):
 Say to him:
"If I've got this wrong then I'll come on a date with you, but I think you like me. Am I right or wrong?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007): Just ask him straight!
This guy is being a jerk for teasing you.
Ask him if he likes you or not, if not, leave you alone.
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female
reader, alieP91  +, writes (6 December 2007):
 It's really good that he keeps bringing it up that means that he's waiting for you to ask him out so freaking go for it.
But don't make it all cheesie like, just have a lunch or even a coffee one day and don't start on that topic ease your way into it. Show him that you have the power inside you that is willing to go the extra mile for him.
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