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female
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writes: Hiya i have a problem. I haven't had a bf since i was at junior school and have now left school so its been along time. Its just i met this lad at college when i joined back in september we are in every lesson together and hang out at dinner and breaks. its just afew weeks ago i had this strange dream that i was just lying with him holding his hand and since then i've had feeling for him. This eventually wore off but since we went on a trip yesterday i couldn't stop looking at him and now i can't stop thinking about him. He seems quite shy and isn't like a lot of lads but is everything u'd want in a bf even though he isn't very good looking. We get on well at friends but haven't known each other long. I really wnat to stop feeling this way because i highly doubt he feels the same and shows no interest. Also up until now i haven't wanted a bf and i think if i had one i wouldn't be totally ready for it. but i really don't want to feel this way anymore unless there was anyway i knew he may feel the same. I don't even know why it was brought on. How do i stop feeling like this? and also do you know any reason why i suddenly started having feelings for him? I would also like to know what are the signs that a guy likes you?
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reader, Gemini1506 +, writes (6 December 2007):
that is so weird
i feel the exact same i had a dream about this guy and now im obbessed
i told my friends and they said i should go for it. so why not? Fink of it like you have nuffing to lose and if you do decide to make a move do it slowly i just need help on how im going to do it
best of luck
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