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writes:I have been dating my gf for about a year now. I recently saw pictures of the last guy she dated. He is 6-5 225 pounds and in shape. I'm 5-11 and in avg shape. Sometimes I worry that because her ex was a physically tall/big guy that it means he had a really big penis and rocked her world in bed. She had told me she never really thought of him as her BF(even though she wasn't seeing anyone else) and they would just hangout with mutual friends on weekends and then hookup afterwords at her place or his place. The relationship lasted 4 months. Is the tall guy= huge penis a myth? My manhood is 6.5" long and about 2" wide. I have always felt very comfortable and never intimated. But lately when were intimate sometimes It doesn't really feel that tight to me. I don't remember it feeling that way when the relationship started. It could just be a mental thing on my part. I worry that his manhood was really big and filled her out or "stretched her out" while mine isn't enough to really satisfy her. She claims to be having orgasms with me but we all know women can lie about that. Is it possible that even though he is a big guy that his manhood was no bigger then my own and didn't satisfy her anymore then I do??
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reader, pgissyd  +, writes (6 December 2007):
 hunny, there is absolutely no foundation in that myth! Same with the big hands big feet big !**! myth, tottally untrue!
Trust me.
as to the tight at the beggining not so now, that may well be so, but its likely because when you first started, you were bigger than him, so her body had to stretch to accomodate you.
Now though her body is the perfect size for your member and therefore not so tight.
Other than that, women tense up when they are nervous, so if she was nervous the first few time you had sex, then she would have been a little tense and therefore tighter, now she is relaxed with you, the tenseness ergo the tightness has gone.
Please dont get hung up on this other guy, there is a reason the is sleeping with you not him, so get over it and be satisfied you are obviously far better than he ever was.
By the way, yes sometimes women do lie about orgasms, but not on a regular basis, if you were not satisfying her she would say so, so you can put that issue well out of your head hun.
Take care, and enjoy what you have now.
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reader, SamuraiRick +, writes (6 December 2007):
 Let’s look at two things here: One was that this guy was not her boyfriend, but they saw each other and hooked up for a while. That’s called a fuck-buddy, and whether you can tell he had bigger dick or not, he obviously satisfied her enough to go to bed with him on a regular basis if nothing else. She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and admit this….maybe he did have a bigger dick, maybe he did rock her better. That’s something you have to live with and put behind you.
Second: If you feel its not as tight as it should be...your line is “you don’t remember feeling that way when you started” Are you implying that you think she’s sleeping with this other guy or some other guy that’s stretching her? That’s a big bomb! I don’t know what to tell you…but you should have a little more evidence then her “feel” to think she might be getting it on with a horse. Have you ever thought she might be using a big dildo?
Don’t accuse your girl of being a porn star. The question you have is not something you can bring up delicately to her. Be careful here. AS long as she tells you are satisfying her, live with that and be happy with her. Maybe she loves you so much that any shortcomings you have are compensated in other departments. Be happy about that! And don’t worry about her past. There’s always a bigger fish, but just be the best fish you can be for her.
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reader, Mistify  +, writes (6 December 2007):
 Hi there
Take it from me - the big guy - huge penis thing is an absolute myth. They really do vary in size - regardless of the build of a guy.
I've had short guys with large penises, and tall guys with small penises, and the other way around.
Vagina size also vary - and if she did feel tight in the beginning, then her size might very well be in yr head.
If she says you are pleasing her - then believe her. Unless she's given you reason to doubt - you have nothing to worry about.
Also - the cliche - it's not the size that counts, but the motion of the ocean, is ABSOLUTELY true.
As i've posted on here before, in answer to a similar question - the best sex i've EVER had, was with a guy with a 4" penis.
So - really - you have nothing to worry about.
Relax, and good luck.
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