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writes:i am a college student and one night a little over a month ago, when i got beack to my dorm room, my roommate had some of her friends over, there wsa this really hot guy and we messed around all night and we were drinking too...but im worried about being pregnent because after he left and i got dressed i notcied i had a bruise on my arm, and i had no idea how it got there. so then i wondered what else happened i didnt rem. im not on b/c and i did have some bleeding, but it was earlier than my period was supposed to come and it didnt last long. and i feel a little weird because i mean it probably is nothing, but i have been so empotional lately and moody and ive been sick now for like 2 weeks. i mean i was eating dinner with my friends and i saw a christmas tree and i started to cry over it! i never do that! i mean its weird cuz i cant control it. help please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): i just want to say thank you to the first guy who answered my question, it was helpful. to the second guy, you dont know me so dont assume that i am a stupid "girl who needs to be more careful". i always am, this is the first time anything liek this has ever happened to me and thats why i was so scared. maybe you should not be so judgemental.
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (7 December 2007):
If only you girls could really play it safe then you would have less problems like this."we messed around all night and we were drinking too..." I really don't mean to criticise you but what do you actually mean by messing around? Where you in his pants giving him a bj? I assume you were flirting.Don't you know guys enjoy flirting and doing it the whole night may indicate to the guy that you want more. Anyway,it also sounds like rape,which is serious and you should really do a medical check up on yourself.Not saying what he did is right but there was always gonna be a risk of rape when you are in a room with a guy THE WHOLE NIGHT,drinking.
Take care.
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reader, enjoimx +, writes (6 December 2007):
 I think you need to figure out as soon as possible if you were raped. You seem to be hinting to us that you think you might have been raped. You should probably go to a planned parenthood type place and pick up a free pregnancy test, and talk to a counselor there about the events of that night. They will have some solid advice on what you can do.
Its probably nothing your right...it sounds like you were a bit drunk and you could have bumped into something at many various points that night and gotten bruised.
Personally I would want to know though.
Good luck
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