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writes:I am going out with this man right after my divorce. He is 18 years older than me. I feel wanted and loved which make me feel really good. Two months on I start to feel he is too old for me. He's got false teeth, dozes off on the sofa during the day and always talks about things in the 40s and 50s. I feel like we are living in two different world. But I like the way he treats me. Is there any future in this relationship. Please advise.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): You havent said that you love this guy! I dont think this is a good idea and i think you know it. You have met someone at your most vunerable. You needed a comfort blanket and along he came. Age never matters but there are no words of love her. You can feel loved from a pet, or a friend but you are not in love with them. Step out of this relationship and spend some time to get your head right. I needed at least 4 year without going out with a bloke before i could see the wood for the trees.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 December 2007):
 I agree with Baby Duck. It seems that this man gave you the attention and support you needed after your divorce, but it doesn't seem like you're compatible. And, rightly so. You are in very different stages of life. This feelings that you are sharing with us are the way you're going to feel from now on.
If you weren't unsure about this relationship, you wouldn't be asking us questions. So, I think that is the answer you need. This isn't a fulfilling relationship for you.
Hope this helps.
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reader, kenny +, writes (6 December 2007):
 Age gaps invariably only ever become a problem in one of the people in question have got issues with it. If a couple are both fine with an age gap then there is no reason atal why it should not work out. At the end of the day age is only a number, how you both feel for one another far supersedes how many numbers are between you. You say you like the way he treats you, so stay with him and see how it goes.
All the best & good luck x
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reader, sexyhunnibbe001 +, writes (6 December 2007):
 in this day n age no i don't think he is too old for you.
there's plenty of teenage girls going out wih middle aged men.
hope i helped :)
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