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anonymous
writes:hii'm 43 years old male married, my wife and i started swinging 3 years ago with a couple, the sex was good and we enjoyed it, the problem is the couple split 2 months ago but the guy keeps coming, i allowed it cuz my wife enjoys it.i want to stop swinging now, how can i convince my wife to stop too?i need an advice from other swingers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): typical man? If it was the other way round I don't think she'd be happy with him just seeing the woman on his own.
In my opinion you just need to tell her straight. If she won't accept that it's hurting you then in my opinion there's no point to the relationship. Swinging requires both partners to be included in the act. If it's only one partner then it is cheating.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): this is hilarious, typical man...it was ok hile you were getting some but now youre not, you dont want her to have any fun without you either...you reap what you sow...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): To me it sounds like the other couple was the only couple you swapped with. Your wife is probably a bit scared of finding a new pair to swap with. Do you want to stop swinging or stop what is happening now. If it is stop swinging tell your wife straight. If it is just what is happening now you need to explain how you feel and put an end to this other bloke.
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reader, Heartly +, writes (7 December 2007):
 Im not a swinger But my ex husband was very into the " three some thing" ( me , him and other women ) I went with his wishes for years ( then he started to see these women behind my back ect . He was a major player to start with , so i only did it i hopes that he would stop cheating ) but back to your issue ... I think the best thing for you to do is just be honest , but firm with her and tell her that you are done with that life style and you are not willing to be involved with it any longer ! Tell her if she loves you she will respect your wishes ... as you would her . Do be prepared for the worst But dont continue to do things you dont want to do !!!!!! she may deside to leave but that could be for the best , if she truly loves you she will respect you wishes !
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