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11, My ex boyfriend told everyone, including my new boyfriend that I'm a bad kisser. Help!

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Question - (6 December 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 18 July 2008)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

my ex boyfriend told everyone including my current boyfriend that im a bad kisser. and now my current boyfriend wants to test to see if i am good! ive only been going out with him for a week! im afraid if he is going to think i AM a bad kisser... so far we've had no relationship problems. and then, BAM! this comes up. my boyfriend said it could be fun to test it (just letting you know, my friends don't like him at all). oh yeah, im only in 6th grade!!!!!!!!!!!!! stressed 11 year old here!! what should i do?

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A female reader, galleria Australia +, writes (18 July 2008):

Ive got a boyfriend and im only eleven but i was in the same situation as you i was told i was a bad kisser but now with my current boyfriend i kiss him all the time and it was just jealosy that made him say that.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008):

if you find an answer tell me.

im 11 too.

i have my first boyfriend now and im so shy around him.

i dont want him to think i dont like him...whenever im with him my stomach hurts. its not a good feeling. i like him but i dont know what to do...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007):

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ok... turns out... we kissed today. it was fine ;) lol. but there was somethin i DID NOT expect... i thought it was gonna be a nice long kiss... but no. it was a kiss... i did enjoy it... but when we started kissing... lets just say that it only lasted about 2 maybe 3 seconds until he... put his tongue right in my mouth!!! it was my first makeout ever... it went well after that. we kissed. we listened to his iPod. he said he loves me. he kissed my neck. we kissed 1 more time... i went home. it acctually wasn't that bad. i really do like him. ya... and again, im only in sixth grade lol. thanx 4 the comments!!! bye!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007):

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thanx sooo much. but to add to my story... my boyfriend is probably just doing this becuz he wants to kiss me. hes really a great guy. but 1 problem, everyone including my friends are NOT being supportive of my boyfriend and me. i know, i know. your gonna say screw my friends. but still. i love my boyfriend but then again... im not sure if i do. CONFUSION!!! im still a stressed 11 year old

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A female reader, maggie1987 United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2007):

maggie1987 agony aunttell your old boyfreind and everyone else that he was a bad kisser say things like he drooled all over my face and you had to wipe your mouth and face evrytime u kissed because his slabbers where all over you and also make a point of saying because you were going to tell everyone he told everyone u were the bad kisser first so he didnt look like a twat. that should put him in his place for a while

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2007):

How pathetic is he? He is probably him who is the bad kisser. Tell him to buggar off and forget about it. There are worse things in life than that and it is learned from experience, so go out there and kiss all them frogs!!!

take care

xx

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A female reader, alieP91 Australia +, writes (6 December 2007):

alieP91 agony auntJust one question before i answer your question, if your just 11 years of age why the hell did you say that your where between 26-29?

Now to your question, I think personally that you should ditch the boy your with now. If he truly cared about you then he wouldn't have to 'test it out' and he wouldn't take one bit of notice to the rumour!

But it is all in your hands and what ever you come up with I hope it turns out the way you want it to!

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A female reader, peaches83 United Kingdom +, writes (6 December 2007):

peaches83 agony auntOk if there is a possibility that you are a bad kisser alwyas remember let the man/boy lead. Dont opn your mouth too much and no dribbling lol.

Im sure you should do just fine, although maybe a little young.

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