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writes:I want to have sex but I want to wait a little longer with my boyfriend. I just want to know if I should do oral with him first.He says he has no problem doing it but I don't know if I should let because I don't know what it feels like.Does oral feel good?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2007): It's a good idea that you are saving yourself for such a huge moment in your life, but feel no pressure as well in becoming sexually active if you do not want to. If it is intimacy you and your boyfriend want to attain, then it is rather okay to be intimate without having to do anything sexual with one another.There is actually a lot of intimacy going on when a couple just lay together and talk about everything, cuddling, kissing, and other things that may not directly be sexual.
As for oral sex, it is easier to please guys than girls. We women are quite complex creatures when it comes to sex and matters of thereof. Oral sex is awkward the first time or even the first few times, especially when you are giving it to your partner. But once you have had more experience with it, it is really quite amazing and sometimes even better not intercourse itself.
If this sounds like a lot to you, then you should not be doing anything you may not be ready to do. Be true to yourself and don't let anyone pressure you into being ready! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2007): huni- your still very young and oral sex is a delicate practice which is hard sometimes for some couples to even cope wit whether your doing it for the first time or the third and so on. oral sex is about being fully ready so i feel since it is being your first time i personally feel you shouldnt because you both will need to relax and feel your bodies to communicate naturally rathr that physically
hope this helps
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (4 August 2007):
 You're very welcome hun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks for the help!! :D
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (4 August 2007):
If done right oral can feel very good and be very fun.
You are your guy should when you decide to have oral sex just "play around" with each other and see what you both like. Sex, especially oral sex is all about learning what turns your partner on.
Don't be put off it you both are too nervous for sparks to fly the very first time. You will get the hang of it and realise that its a good feeling for you both.
I also agree with Andy00 about being mature about not wanting sex yet and wanting to wait :) Personally sometimes I think oral is more fun then sex itself anyway.
Just be careful about where your boyfriends sperm goes. Dont put a finger with cum of near your vagina as it can mean falling pregnant. Also if your partner isn't going to wear a condom be sure he hasn't got any infections :)
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reader, Andy00 +, writes (4 August 2007):
 It's very mature that you should want to wait longer before having Sex. There are lots of people on this site alone who don't want to wait, so it's very good that you want to.As a guy, I can't say for sure what oral sex feels like for you as a girl, but I always get the impression that girls love it. If that is something you feel comfortable in doing, then I suppose it's reasonable. After all, you have decided that you are not ready for Sex, and as I say, it's great that you accept that instead of rushing into it.Good luck!
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