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writes:I am desprete here... i need help so badly..im 16 years old. Ive had unportected sex several times over the past two months. my boyfriend NEVER came in me though, i also read that in order for sperm to be in pre cum he must have came earlier that day, is this true?he is 22, he has gotten all his previous girlfriends pregnant, two had msscarrages, one has had a baby. so hes very fertile.my last period was dodgey, it was longer than usually and very heavy. im due my period tomorrow but i took a pregnancy test first thing this morning just to convince myself im not pregnant. it was the clearblue brand.first i thought it said negative because the negative line was really clear. but i waited for ten minutes, and looked at it again, and noticed a VERY faint blue line making it a plus for positive....does this mean im pregnant?its very faint but still visable..im scared to death please help ASAP...=[
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reader, emmerby +, writes (10 August 2007):
i am sorry to say this but u have been silly but the up side is we all are at 1 point in are lives. ive had sti's from a man i was with 6 years so getting tested should be 1 of the first things u do so if u are pregnant the doc's can keep baby safe. Three months ago i had a miss there was a faint line i did another 1 a few days later and another but the line didnt get any stronger a week later i missed so if u want this baby rest and do another test it may not have fused on yet prop if u dont want it wait a few days do another test thengo 2 doc's there are lots of options
good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): i had a faint line 3 months ago and it stayed faint for a week then i lost it just be carefull dont think it fused prop if u want it relax dont over do it
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (4 August 2007):
 I wouldn't go by your period as making you not pregnant. I feel for that one. I had two periods that were pretty normal when I first fell pregnant hence the "no your lying" comment to my doctor who obviously wasn't lying and I made her test again.
But if you are sure then I'm glad things are working out. Just be careful :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): ok not to worry i got my period :)woo.and yeah by law im allowed be with this guy and my parents quite like him. in the UK its 16 to have sex. and we have been together for 10 months so im pretty sure he cares about me.i know he wouldnt just run away if i was pregnant. I will be more carefull next time.
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reader, aye  +, writes (4 August 2007):
 go to a clinic like planet parent hood they will help u with everything and once you are sure u can tell everyone u want its scary but u must do it iits no 100% chance your pregnent but how u wrote in your question i wuld say u were
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reader, DJ8433 +, writes (4 August 2007):
 If the test is positive, there's a really really good chance you're pregnant. Go to the doctor to be sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007): Man this guy sounds like he has super sperm. Just Kidding.
For now: Wait to see if your period is on time. If it is the same as usual or heavier then you’re probably not pregnant. If it's very light you may be pregnant. If it's late retest. Either way you can re-test in a few days and you should go see a doctor to make sure.
For future: Precum has sperm, don't believe evetything your bf tell's you. If you choose not to use condoms for whatever reason (it's usually because they guy doesn't want to because they say it doesn't feel the same, which means he really doesn’t care about consequences you have to deal with and probably doesn’t really care about you), why aren't you on the pill? Pay close attention to the next line: If this guy has any indication of infidelity in the past USE PROTECTION, like a condom. You should be using protection anyways but especially if he's cheated on you or other gf's. STD's can last for life, some can have complications and can have severe consequences, not to mention expensive hospital bills. Don't mess up you life for some guy.
If you start using condoms don't think you can’t get pregnant either. I’ve known two girls that got pregnant while using a condom. If you're having sex on a regular basis you really should be on the pill and know all the facts about the pill, STD’s, and ways you can get pregnant. Getting pregnant is serious whether you choose to have the baby or not. It'll still affect you for the rest of your life.
Also, your way too young to be involved with a guy that already has baggage. Other people’s baggage should come later in life when there is less opportunity to meet people, not when you’re still 16 and still have so much opportunity to meet someone else, someone who doesn’t come with a family.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (3 August 2007):
 Pregnancy tests are only sensitive (i.e. accurate) for the time stated on the instructions (usually just a few minutes). It is unlikely that you are pregnant but you are obviously sleeping with someone who doesn't care about contraception so why aren't you taking charge and insisting on its use? With unprotected sex it is only a matter of time until you do fall pregnant or risk contracting something nasty that needs treating! Remember how freaked out you feel about this right now next time you start anything with this guy. Precum does contain sperm more often than not and it doesn't matter what the man has been doing earlier in the day.
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reader, Jamer70 +, writes (3 August 2007):
 Well i agree with yummymummy and joeybohn.
Why would you have unprotected sex with a man you consider "very fertile"
Use a condon from now on
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reader, KETaylor +, writes (3 August 2007):
My dear child,
First I have to ask why a 16 year old is with a 22 year old father? You are a child and need to be dating guys your own age. But past that. It is possible to become pregnate from precum with or without the male cumming earlier in the day. However, if it took 10 minutes for the faint line to show up the test may be faulty. Take another stick test and if it shows the same again go and get a test from the doctor. If you are pregnate you may have other issues to deal with. In some states it is illeagal for grown men to have sex with 16 years old. Your parents could press charges of statury rape against this guy. But you need to find out for sure and make your choice of what you are going to do. There are several places on the web and I am sure in your community that you can contact for support.
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reader, maria3 +, writes (3 August 2007):
I have had two children and no matter how faint the line for a positive result it means it is positive. My second baby I susspected early as I felt faint and dizzy a lot and it was barely noticaBLE the line to show it was positive. So you probably are pregnant and you can get pregnant by pre cum. It happens every time a man gets hard and is really turned on. It is clear stuff that can fertilise you. you dont need me to tell you you were crazy for not using protection. You could get the injection which is 99% effective and you can still have sex with no condoms if your confident he has no std's. I half think you want to be pregnant knowing his past would make any one be more safe. Good luck if you are definitely pregnant check again in a week or two as it should be a stronger result. And see your doctor asap too, about baby and for a std test. He has had several partners with no protection.
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reader, shivon1705 +, writes (3 August 2007):
 take another pregnancy test i different brand thats a little more clear? or go to the doctors and get one there for freeits all confidenshal and they wont tell a soulas for your boyfriend he is very aware of the risks of unprotectred sex and should start using a condom if he doesnt like the idea maby you should think about getting your self on the pill, again you can go to the doctors for this and they wont tell a soulif you are pregnant it is very scary but if your not ready for the baby there are ways outi hope your boyfriend would support you if the wort happenedbut just get another testand good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007): Knowing he is very fertile why didn't you use protection? You know the drill. What were you thinking? If you're that worried, go to the free clinic (if your community has one) and have a real test performed. And I hope for your sake it comes back negative. Then maybe this will scare you into being smarter next time you have sex. Get on the Pill!
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reader, joeybohn2000 +, writes (3 August 2007):
relax, and wait a few days and re test.Buy condoms! Use them! Babies grow up. STD`S are forever!
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reader, vickiii07 +, writes (3 August 2007):
 Go to your doctor. They wont judge you. Next tell your boyfriend and use protection next timee.g condoms go on the pill or injections to stop this happening next time x
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reader, YummyMummy +, writes (3 August 2007):
I don't know what the strict laws are on the amount of sperm in precum but I wouldn't have taken the risk you have especially since your guy has gotten all his past girlfriends pregnant.
I would get yourself tested at your doctors as by the sounds of it you could be pregnant if a faint line showed up. Also can you be sure this guy hasn't got any infections?
I know I sound all harsh but I don't mean to be. Get yourself to your doctor who can test you and then talk to you about what to do next if you are pregnant. :)
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