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writes:Hi there, I'm finding it really hard to get over my ex. He broke up with me about a month ago. It was all very sudden and he didn't really give me any valid reasons. He just text me and said "I can't do this anymore." I was devastated, as he always said he loved me and I believed him. He always used to say he would never hurt me, then he did. I felt like he just brushed me away like I meant nothing to him. I'm still hurting. Despite everything I still care about him and have a lot of respect for him so it was all very amicable. I've done all the right things since the break up, like cutting all ties, put all reminders of him away, gone out socialising etc. I feel a lot better than I was but I still have days where I feel really bad. How can I move on from this and completley recover? I'm worried that I will never meet anyone else that I will love as much as I loved my ex. Will he always be in the back of my mind? I just want to move on and forget about him. Any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): why don't they make pills to forget? getting over an ex on the first months is so hard to do... but only time will be able to erase anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): i feel like i just read my feelings exactly. my story is a bit different tho i was with this guy for a year and a half and then he just told me to forget him he doesnt want a future with him and so on. i know EXACTLY wut u r feeling im a 22 year old who is just lost. u want to move on and forget about him it just takes time i guess thats wut im hoping for time to heal me..to forget him u never forever a person cause we always have a tiny place in our heart for that person. and u know wut dont ever love someone as much as u loved him cause u never know wut happens love them as much as they love u and thats it. dont get fooled.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would just like to say thank you for all your advice and support. It is sending me in the right direction. I just need to stay strong and keep moving forward. Thanks guys xx
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (3 August 2007):
 In time, yes you will get over him. It took me about a year, maybe a bit more to finally get over one of my exes.
Probably more like 3 years to actually be with someone else & not compare him.
The saying he would never hurt you then doing it, makes you quite angry. But when he said that, im sure he meant it! Remember you will go through different stages, sad, angry, self doubt, lots of feelings that are normal emotions. But you will get there in the end.
He didnt cheat or lie & was honest with you when he finished it, and thats a little comfort i guess.
For a while he will be in the back of your mind, even the front! But hang on in there and keep doing what you are doing & before you know it, you will meet someone that you will have a blast with.
Good luck
C xxxxx
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