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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2007): my boyfriend is just the same! if he could help it he would have it everyday all day but I know he loves me still so yeah it is possible!
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reader, maria3  +, writes (3 August 2007):
If you question his motives towards you hold back when it comes to having sex. Let him have a break If you put out all the time you will always question his motives. Besides he will want you more when he does get you AND IT HEIGHTENS YOUR SENCES. Go out on some dates with him and slow the pace down a bit. If he shows less interest because hes not getting the sex he might be in it jus for that. But if the relationship is new its quite natural to be at it all the time too. I'd test him by holding back, make sure you let him kno that yr not bored of it or anything he might get paranoid bout his techniques.
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reader, Wildlife dude  +, writes (3 August 2007):
 In from the age of 18 - 35 want sex every time they see you whether they love you or not is irrelevant. They still want it. And they probably want it from about 90% of all the other females they come in contact with during the day to; the UPS girl cuz' she looks so cute in her little brown shorts, the girl at the grocery store because she has long blonde hair, the woman on the bus because she has big boobs and beautiful eyes. You name it. But most of them won't actually go there especially if they're in committed relationships. They say it fades as you get older. Not true. I love my girlfriend and even though she'd never know it (I try to be a gentleman) I want sex from her every time we are together.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007): It is possible but if all you are doing everytime you meet is having sex then it looks like he's using you for sex.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (3 August 2007):
yeah it is possible but it is also possible that the person could just be saying they love you in order to get sex everytime.
in order to have a better understanding of which it really is in this case, look for other signs. like i mean he may want sex everytime but, if he doesnt get it does he get cranky? if he loves u he should able to deal with not having it everytime i would think.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (3 August 2007):
 Of course. Can make you feel a bit like a sex object sometimes though! As long as you have lots of fun in other ways then i wouldnt worry about it too much. Just dont do it all the time because thats what he wants. You can say no sometimes, it doesnt mean you dont fancy or love him!
All the best.
C xxxxx
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