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writes:Do you fall in love because you want to, because at some level in your mind you decide to do it, or do you fall in love exclusively because of the effect you think someone else has on you? Reply to this Question
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reader, Butterflyfly +, writes (6 September 2007):
Butterflyfly is verified as being by the original poster of the question I agree with the last post.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2007): I don't think we fall in love with someone who is "right" for us. I think everyone is capable of falling in love with a big number of people out there. But ones that we actually do end up falling in love with are just the ones (out of that original larger percentage of potentials) that we give enough chances to, regardless of whether they're worthy of it or not.The moral of the story is DON'T give chances to people that you know right away aren't good for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2007): hi to every one.
im writing this to u. i want to see ye to see what is my piont.
am i too wrong to falling in love again after spilt up with my boyfriend for the last 2 years and a half. we broke up last months but we breaking it up many of time thousand of times i felt that he is not the right, some something came to me last year when i went to the course. one night a classes mate were asked me to going out weekend last year April 2006. i eneded up when out along with them. a friends of mine brought some of lads around. when i spotted a fella just right seat beside me. we just like falling chatting away and teaching him some of sign laugange,he knew that i had boyfriend at this time. so at the end we swap the number of us. so i forget about it in the last fews day. he texted me the most of everyday, so then i ve to got to stop. so i let myself go for it for a luagh just going out for a drink and make new friend. then every mostly weekend we went out alot latley, then my boyfriend did not seem care which he is no interest going out but i do., so we have been friend after 5 months some things came to me falling spark to him and he felt the same. i dont know what to do coz i was unhappy with my realtionship and he the one to support me through, and do everythings for me. and he keep telling me to leaving him but i made my choice to stay with my boyfriend, he just like right there it what u want but rem i will be there for u when u need, im like ok. when the day come he told me that he move in different country new job. i was saying im happy for u. i was not thinking or the feeling. we carry on going outas a mate for a drink. one night so like magic we falling into our arm and felt so right but i keep stay with my boyfriend and told him its was so wrong and feel awful cheated, so later on. one night he tole me that he could not tell me why.. i ask him what is it. he scared. im trying to say why,, then he lie aboout the job he will be out of sea for a year. i was just like numb and said what is great.. when the months later its time for him to go. when he gone. my heart like broken.. but i m just pushed things away nothing happening.. when i heard he ve a girlfriend. i like oh good for him. i brust cry in my own night and upsetting coz i was too wrong to stay with my boyfriend. and i alreadly let him go... what a such mistake i ever made... ve not hear from him a years but i always think of him wondering what he is doing now.. when he texted me for the frist timne in a years later my heart all racing.
then we meet up what happening i brust eyes front of him and still love with him. so take a time so i break up with my boyfriend over him. we just like falling in love and knew somethings betwwen us like there is a sign... but im taking easy to be with this guy who i really love abd not in reationship. told him take my time. just broke up last months, but i was mad and want to be with him. he is just so right for me, and i want to show the world that i love him. he is my dream man i could ever wish for... help.. everything spark us and so in love and he brought me happiness and everything whicg i never felt like this before just like so real... what will i do... its him i wanted and he said it the same. everythings he told his feeling/. he never stop loved me after he left. i was the same but.. i was hope to be with him too soon or it wrong.. but i felt is so right...
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reader, Butterflyfly +, writes (10 August 2007):
Butterflyfly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDo you think it's possile for someone to tell you 'I love you' when they don't mean it -they say it as a means to get in your pants or soemthing like that?
Aren#t the 'I love you ' words the heaviest ones around?
Has it ever happened to you that someone told you they love you when they did not? ( or the other way around?)
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reader, Butterflyfly +, writes (9 August 2007):
Butterflyfly is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni think it's a decision, a want.. when i was younger i thoght it was definately the other person's input, but now after deliberating a lot im pretty surre we decide to do it, when and with whom, and with what reasons(acknowledged or not...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): i think it is also a part of decision and followed by mind and heart and it will be more develope when the person can make you really smile and totaly happy from heart to your soul... XXX gladyz here......
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): I believe it is a decision ultimately!
All we have is choices and Love is no different, nor should it be!
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reader, edsbabygirl  +, writes (4 August 2007):
 I know that when I fell in love with my boyfriend, it was the way he appealed to me and made me feel. He made me want to be more open to certain activities and he made my sexual drive increase alot. Basically it all just fell on me when I got to know him.
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