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anonymous
writes:Im not sure where to start, Iv had the worst couple of weeks of my life-and although I have my health Im still feeling quiet depressed.To begin my week I had my birthday, I lost my job, its very tough to get a new job where I am but my bills, loans... remain the same so Im really feeling the pressure financially, every day my finances got worse because my boss who owes me money has left the country. Then my boyfriend of 2 years (who to be fair I hadnt told him the full extent of my finances, most women dont though) told me we need to talk, and that there's something missing in our relationship, i can only assume that this means he doesnt feel the spark anymore, I tried asking him to elaborate but he kept avoiding the question no matter how direct I was.My friend saw me and assumed I was so depressed looking because of my job and said some things in front me my boyfriend that filled him in on my financial worries. he offered me money, which I didnt accept because our relationship is suddenly (and I really didnt see this coming) rocky. He left the house and has been acting like everythings great and we have no problems. I feel like he thinks Im dragging what he said out but basically I dont want him with me out of pity, I want someone who is with me because they love me and want to be with me. I text him asking him to come back so we could talk about things, that I didnt know where I stood with him but he just replied saying not to worry, that everything would be grand.I dont want to be a nag but I feel like I have the right to know whats going on! I really feel like every day since my birthday has brought nothing but depression.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2007): i wrote the question: this morning my boyfriend finally dumped me, it really has been the staw that broke the camels back. I just dont know what to do.
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