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writes:Hi Everyone. I've had loads of advice from you over the last few months. I split with my partner after being together for over 4 years last November but we got back together early in the New Year only to split again in March. We didn't live together or anything -I have a son of 12 from a previous marriage and he has two sons aged 13 and 17. It was my decision to end things as I really didn't see a future with him - the reason for which I'm not really sure of which I know sounds strange. We had drifted apart somehow towards the end of last year and I was finding more reasons not to spend time with him.I talked to him about things and said that we were just plodding along and existing really. It felt like a habit and I think I was bored. Also, my romantic feelings towards him had faded along the way. He has contacted me a few times by text and we have seen each other a couple of times out and about over the last few months and he still wants us to be together. Thinking back to the earlier days of the relationship so much was great - we do get one well and I know deep down that he's a good, honest guy that truely thinks the world of me but I'm not sure I can look and think that I can spend the rest of my life with him. What do I do? Should I give it another go and see if the 'chemistry' can be re-created and that it could work? Or do I still walk away now?Thanks for your help.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (4 August 2007):
 If you think you can't spend the rest of your life with him, and you already were involved with him, I guess you really don't want to be involved with him anymore. If this is true, no, walk away; I don't think it will work.
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