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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi, just a general question here. ATM i have no interest in finding a bf and atm im not ready for one but when i do get one i want one thats serious about me, doesn't use me for sex, loves me for who i am, doesn't go out using drugs and smoking like a lot of lads do these day (smoking is just one thing i can't stand at all) I just want to know how do you know when you have found a person like this and that they aren't just going to change and act like everyone else, i suppose basically when they have grown up. how can you tell the difference. Any help would be good thanks cause i think alot of how people act these days as in using drugs, smoking, using people for sex and not understanding who you really are(as in if your not like them they don't like you) has put me off wanting one because when i do get one i want a serious one, i am generally quiet and not like other people, i don't go out drinking most weekends or anything like that.
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reader, kenny +, writes (23 April 2007):
 You sound like a nice girl, so the likellhood is you are going to meet a really nice guy. As you don't frequent bars and clubs where invariably people are drinking and smoking, you are raising your chances even more.
You could meet someone on a college course, at work, at the gym, meeting people in these sort of places you will find that you share the same sort of interests, and getting to know someone over a period of time will tell you what sort of person they are.
Don't be in to much of a rush to meet someone you are still young, we invariably find a potential partner when we least expect it.
All the best x
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