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writes:Please I need help with my girlfriend. its nothing blatant - its kind of subtle but its killing me inside and I need to know what to do :(. Every since we started going out, I swear shes been scared of me. She kinda never flirts with me. Its hard to explain. OK example: (I know its a rubbish one, I'm sorry) Another boy had shorts on when we were out one time, and we were all sitting down. My GF was like "You have blond leg hair!" and then she pulled out some and was like to her mate: Ellie do you want some Alec (the kids name) hair?" And I was just thinking that she would never ever do that 2 me! I mean, she'd be too scared of me! Please know what I mean! She never like jokes around with me or anything like kinda flirting. And shes my Girlfriend! :( I always have to kiss and hug her as well, she's too shy and scared to do that as well :( PLEASE give me some advice on what to do this is killing me :(
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (23 April 2007):
Sometimes its easier to joke/flirt around with someone when its not likely tp progress to something more serious. Perhaps she feels that as you are girlfriend and boyfriend, if she jokes around with you, it may lead to something more serious. Let her know that you are not going to pressure her into anything. And why not try flirting and jokeing with her yourself. Rather than exspecting her to. She may be shy around you because she likes you. You need to ask her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 April 2007): Two words: open communication.
If you don't understand what I just said, what you need to do is talk to her, ask questions, try to understand her. Maybe even talk to her more about yourself, herself, everything. Maybe she is scared of doing something stupid, being a bad kisser, maybe because you two are so young and she feels pressured.
Talk to her.
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