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writes:Hi, I'm in a very strong relationship with a boy and we've decided to go a step further - not sex i want to give him a blow job. Have you got any tips and should i swallow or spit out the cum?? X..Layla..X
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reader, vickysmr  +, writes (13 December 2010):
Yes, you can do it like this and that will be the perfect blow job:
1. First you need to get him turned on - be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it's important that you act as seductive as possible - the more you're turned on - the more he'll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible - this is a great turn on.
2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head - just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan - you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.
3. As you're licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes - this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.
4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft - don't do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you're twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you're watching him.
5. Say something like "mmmmm I love it" then smile, smiling is very important - it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.
6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently - make sure you are gentle 'cause his balls are very sensitive, as you're tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.
7. Once you see that he's getting closer start stroking harder - and don't even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it - tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) - then as he starts to come, you have 2 options - you can hold his penis or he can hold it - I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.
8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.
9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you've got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it - then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it's gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack's Blowjob Lessons ---- http://www.jacksblowjoblessons.com
10. Smile again, believe me he'll love you for it.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2008): First things first...avoid teeth... cover them with your lips...start with some stroking/ rubbing/ caressing...my guy likes it when hes still in his boxers and were making out and i rub all the way from his balls to the top of his cock... when you finally get down to the naked boy get your hands wet./..lube spit whatever it takes...if hes hard one technique for this is "pornstar spit"... try to deep throat him but not till you puke just gag a little...its makes this AMAZING spit...totally awesome...so once were lubed up jack him a bit...then start by flicking your tongue on the place where the foreskin is/used to be attached but do this while still jacking...then take the head into your mouth and suck a bit...still jacking...then you wanna start moving your mouth up and down on his cock...i suggest moving your hand and mouth up and down at the same rhythm...you can also suck your mouth down and then still sucking move your mouth up...you can flutter suck too...like many mini sucks...eye contact is good too...the occasional sexy glance...for example take a five second mouth break while still jacking him and look at him and give a cute smile...and the occasional moan while sucking is good too...tells him you enjoy doing it...major turn on...and it can give him a little vibration if you prolong the sound...these are basics in my opinion...but like i said...avoid teeth
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2008): first what i would do is start off by kissing him
then let him touch ur breasts
then tell him to un button his pants and rub his cock with ur hand until he gets hard and then just do it, and swallow his cum, its really good
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reader, straight to the truth +, writes (21 July 2008):
First things first, i picked up on a few things on this question. You said you are in a strong relationship with a boy and want to take it a step further.
This is an instant indication of your age and you are obviously under age to be doing things like this.
This also means what you may think is a very strong relationship probably isn't as strong as you may think. To give someone a blow job is a very intimate thing and you still need to think of the risks like Sexually Transmited Diseases (STD's)
Also if your still at school this sort of thing will get out and everyone will know what you did are you happy with this? you must remember "boys talk!" just as much as us girls do.
I see you aleady have plenty of tips on how to do it but i would suggest you think about why you are doing it and are you ready for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): Right so ur obviously prepared to go to this level wid him so u must realy like him, well i have a little advice i can giv ya... just be gentle and get lotsa move ment like tickling and licking aswell as sucking involved use lotsa slava...
before u actually begin giving him a bj begin by kissing his lips and cheeks and nippling his neck, and licking and gently sucking that spot then work ur way back up to his lips the same way,
eventualy move down to his belly button and gently kiss and lick a few inches below it , near his pelvis from then on just do what u feel is right i guess... and dont worry he wont think ur crap.. infact i dont think iv eva met a guy thats complained of a crap bj, more of the uncomfortableness and auqwardness when she is giving him one so just look like ur enjoying it but dnt go ott elce hell just know ur faking it and get either insicure or a lil ewmbarraced... lol.. buh other than that, dont worry and just have fun... and make sure hes not messin round wiv other girls, elce ul probably catch sumfin then get sent to jail for killin him... nah buh seriously just relax {-; gud luck and hav fun
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2008): I recieved a ten on a scale from 1-10..so i should know what to do...dont use teeth just lips ..tuck your teeth under your lips and as you go down on his dick twist your head a lil bit and always flick your tongue over the top of his head..be gentle dont suck too hard..use your hand also and if you wanna go deeper just breathe through your nose and take it down slow..increase your pace as you go use alot of tongue curl it around the bottom of his cock..he'll love it
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2008): okai right well iv given a few.
the best thing to do is lay on a bed or sofa or something.
lay on him.
kiss/ snog whatever yoo wanna cal it.
move down a bit onto his neck.
chest.
keep going down.
rub your hands up and down his body. especially thighs.
okai start on the head (top of his penis) just lick and play around with it in your mouth.
hold his balls LIGHTLY
lick up and down
put it in your mouth and basicly give him a hand job with your mouth but slower. us your tounge on the underside.
lots of saliva!
suck gently. not too hard. and NEVER BLOW!
get faster and faster
keep going until he cums.
remember yoo dont need him to do it in your mouth. he can tap yoo on the head or something.
yoo can spit descretly into a town or something simular.
or swallow whiich really isnt that bad. doesnt really taste of anything just warm :S
hope thts helpfull and good luck
xxx
P.S make him feel wanted!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2008): u shud never bite!!!!!!!!!!!!!it hurts...a hell lot!!!use saliva....n gently move his skin...by that i mean GNTLY!!!!!use ur tongue....at the max...n keep it wet!!!put as much of da dick as possibl....in ur mouth....all i say is jus be gentle....usa lot of toungu....gntly use da hands....n don pull it back....tht hurts...dun pull it back a lot!!!it cumz naturally
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): lets see ive given head plenty of times.
its like a hobbie.lol.
just becareful bitting yes its an ouch for them.
keep it wet like lots of saliva.
and well cum isnt that great tasting pretty disgusting i think.its like warm and its like blah lol.well good luck.
sucking dick.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): try sucking on a icecream and then give him a blow job
keep your mouth real wet it help and feels good
play with his sack while going sucking
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (8 September 2007):
Use your hands as little as possible.Be gentle, don't use your teeth.Concentrate on the head, esp the underside.Look up at his face. Smile alot.Ask him what feels good.Follow his directions, if any.Occassionally suck his ball very, very gently.Lick up and down the shaft.Take him all in every once and awhile. Let him go down your throat (if u can w/o gag)Gradually increase your speed.Rub his body with you hands.Don't stop until he comes,Swallow the semen. Don't suck hard. Never blow into the penis.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2007): Blowjobs are like a fine art, sometimes it takes a little practice, other times you are just a natural. To give a good blow job you should get him hard. Most guys just need a little sexy french kiss and a little caressing. To start off slowly lick him upwards, with short gentle strokes. When you get to the head flick your tongue or lick a little harder. At this point he should be making a little bit of noise. Then, begin to give him sort of a handjob and suck on the head. As you progess you'll want to take him deeper into your mouth. Don't choke, but try to get him as deep as you can. A tip, cover your teeth with your lips and take him in and out. For a little advancement gently caress your bottom teeth against his penis as you suck. Don't suck to hard. Remember that between the base and the head is very sensuous and sensitive.
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reader, Keria +, writes (25 April 2007):
Here are my tips:
Keep it moist, keep your teeth off. Make sure he's clean. Don't let him come in your mouth unless you are 95% sure he is disease free (I'd say 100%, but let's be realistic, likely the doctor wouldn't even know that!).
If he comes in your mouth, try and get it to the back and down as quickly as possible. If you hate it, be discrete and don't let him know. If you do like it, smile and tell him! He'll be flattered.
Get lots of experience, but don't be a slut about it. Make sure you are very picky who's penis goes into your mouth or other body orfices. Remember that products that are easy to get are cheap. Practice a lot, but don't be cheap.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 April 2007): Wait, don't grab his balls! My gosh, that's gonna hurt! Plus, balls don't get hard per se. What you should do when you're making out with him, is move your hand down to his crotch and brush against it gently over his pants, then proceed to move your hand into his pants and stroke his cock in a gentle way until it's hard. Oh yeah. 8D
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reader, blowjobbabee  +, writes (24 April 2007):
Here's a tip...when you guys are making out, grab his balls and make all things odd noises that turn him, on, THEN begin to whisper in his ear that you want to freak his body, then grab his balls one more time and if he's hard,go for it. If its your first time, begin with a hand job, and FEEL the cum, maybe the feeling might gross you out therefore you'd decide then and there wether you want to swallow, or spit, personally, i swallow, It's not all that bad actually, plus, hes a super hotty, so its okay. As you get experienced, you'd get more comfortable doing it and you'd really begin to like it. It's nothing but fun!
much love and blow job giving!
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reader, Dr. Mark  +, writes (23 April 2007):
For the person who said to gently scrape it with your teeth... Well, that might work as an advanced technique, but I do not recommend that you try it out the first time! Ouch!
Layla, I gave some tips to think about at this posting: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-give-my-boyfriend-a-great.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2007): Dont do either! its minging lol! at least at first anyway
Tell your boyfriend youd like him to pull away before he cums. just while you get used to it.
The first time you bring your mouth up to the top of the head keep the skin pealed back and gently scrape it with your teeth. As you carry on use your hand as well like you would a Hand job but slower! Tickle his balls and the little bit between his bum and his balls! He'll love it!! :)
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reader, chirpychicken +, writes (22 April 2007):
 well...its completely up to you really chick! when you get to the point where he cums then you will know by the taste whether you will naturally want to spit or swallow? i personally have given more blow jobs than i've had hot dinners lol and I have only swallowed once because i just cannot stand the taste smell or texture of cum but you will know. Let him cum in your mouth and see what you think. I dont let my fella cum in my mouth i always get him to tap me on the head and i finish him off with my hand. you can try that it's not like you have to take it in your mouth anyway. Always use your lips and tongue and when you get a bit better with a bit more practice then you can start to practice other stuff like they absolutely love it when you suck their balls and lick the little bit of skin between their balls and bum (the perinium) whilst you give him a hand job. lots of little things if you need any more help just give me a holler!
happy sucking chick!
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reader, Sara Keanu  +, writes (22 April 2007):
 The most important thing is let him know that you want him, not just trying to give him pleasure. Trust me he'll ask for more, if he feels that you want him in your mouth.
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reader, beleiveitbabyx3 +, writes (22 April 2007):
 okay for one, you CAN get oral infections so be carefull. i have gave a guy a blowjob before, its not that bad. you just need to be sure NOT to use ur teeth JUST ur lips. the cum, really if its a strong relationship it should be okay to swallow.. but i strongly suggest that as a couple go to a place to get checked, like planned parenthood because you donot want to get an oral infection.. OR if u dont want to do that you could use a condom and then u wouldnt have to swallow if u dont think its a good idea.
REMEMBER: dont let him or any other guy FORCE you into ANYTHING.. and be careful out there
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